MATCHING CHARTS: NOT EVERYONE'S FORTE

Chart matching -  not everyone's forte

Many people have a good married life despite the fact that did not go for chart matching for marriage. And for many, the married life is miserable in spite that the chart matching was supposedly done. Now, If even after matching the charts the result had to be negative then many including me will question the sanctity of chart matching before marriage.I have done quite a research in this whole analogy for matching of charts and deduced a few things. Firstly every marriage is not destined to doom. Secondly, the marriage may be surviving even in adverse circumstances, and thirdly the whole concept of matching the chart is significantly flawed and ill-conceived even by the astrologers. Applying the law of probability on marriages, there is a fifty-fifty chance for a marriage to survive, chart matching for marriage done or not.But the surviving union may not be necessarily going great. There may be circumstances, like, financial matters, family pressures, kids and many more which compel the couple to stick together and even the deceit has not pulled them apart. But these marriages are not regarded as great marriages as they are not themselves doing great, and if they have any off-springs , they  set up wrong examples for them to grab. Now to match the charts is a matter of competence. Those who think that AsthakootMilan( that is available free of cost on many websites) and knowing whether anyone in the couple is "Manglik" or not, is the complete matching by astrological standards, then think again! This is just twenty percent of the matching and the rest eighty percent is left untouched due to sheer ignorance.  Many initiate the dialogue for marriage after they visit these types of websites and get convinced that the match is adequate and there are lot more who do not bother to go ahead as they think that the Asthkoot match is low or there is "Manglik or KujaDosha." I want to clarify that the comprehensive Kundli Milan is utmost required before finalizing the marriage as it takes care of many marriage compatiiblity factors such as longevity, earnings, style of living and nature, malleability with in-laws, sexual compatibility, progeny, proneness to diseases and acceptability. In these changing times when both the partners' work and they could have their independent desires and aspirations, it is indispensable to go for chart matching , the Vedic way with complete analysis of marriage compatibility factors and for this,very few are competent. The horoscope has an embedded code for everything one aspires to do, it is the smartness of the one reading it to decode it for his client. Says Dr Vinay Bajrangi a love marriage specialist and excellent counsellor for post marriage issues. Read more on his blogs.