How Does Each Zodiac Sign Express Their Anger?

This three-letter word is like the devil who enters our minds and destroys us. This alternative version of "you" harbors all your insecurities, fears, hatred, and assumptions. Today, through this article, we want to enlighten the issue of how your ego can harm you. In addition, we will also discuss in detail why Shukla Paksha and Krishna Paksha happen and the reasons and significance of these events. Furthermore, we will also learn the ways to reduce ego because if ego is not reduced, it will spread negativity in your mind. It will never allow you to make the right decision at the right time. 

In this series of Karma improvements in astrology, through this article, we will discuss a unique topic of astrology that is somehow related to your life. We will start this article by invoking and receiving the blessings of Lord Hanuman. Let's talk about your ego, how much it exists inside you, and how much it harms you.

Can your ego become the biggest obstacle in your success journey?

Even God couldn't escape this egocentric tendency. According to the ancient text, the 27 Nakshatras are considered to be the wives of the Moon. Among all, Rohini is dearest to Moon, and he used to spend most of the time with Rohini. At this, all the other queens got annoyed, and they went to Daksha, complaining that Moon used to spend all his time with Rohini. Angry at the Moon's arrogance, Daksha cursed him. Due to this curse, the Moon grows from half Moon to full Moon for 15 days, then decays for 15 days, causing Krishna Paksha and Shukla Paksha.

As long as there is ego within us, the darkness between us can't disappear. And as long as there is darkness, you can't achieve success, happiness, and peace of mind. In brief, if ego overwhelms your mind, it starts spoiling many houses of your horoscope. First of all, it attacks the Lagna. Afterward, it adversely affects the third house of your horoscope, which represents your courage and confidence. Whatever strength you earn is visible from the third house only because of the Ascendant. After that, it affects the sixth, eighth, eleventh, and twelfth houses. Hence, it is not an exaggeration to say that it is more malefic than Mars. If even a small amount of ego or I-I tendency is present inside you, then it is more dangerous for you than Mars. Without seeing the horoscope, we would say that you should sacrifice your egos. The day you give up your ego, your life's problem will begin to end. You will start climbing the ladder of success, and happiness will come your way. 

Let us explain our point with an example so that you can understand the adverse effects of ego. A few days back, a woman called us and said — I want to know about myself because

I am apprehensive about my children's future. My family members and my husband have already created a mess in my life. My husband spends all his earnings on his mother and sisters, and as a result, he failed to make any savings for our future. That's why I am always worried about my future. 

After listening to her carefully, first, we consoled her and said," Please don't worry; we assure you that we will fix everything. First of all, we need to see the horoscope of your husband to check why he does this."

She provided us with the following information. 

Husband's date of birth- May 14, 1977

Time- 10:30 pm

Birthplace- Sirsa

Wife's date of birth- December 2, 1980

Time- 5:10 pm

Birthplace- Bijnor

On the basis of provided information, we prepared their horoscopes. We told her that his husband's ascendant sign is Sagittarius, and his zodiac sign is Pisces. Ketu, Mars, Moon, and Venus are present in his fourth house. The lady told us that his husband spends all his money on his family, but his horoscope indicates that his mother must be thinking the same thing. She thought that her son, like you that he does not spend any money on me and gives all the money to his wife. Have you ever heard from your mother-in-law that you keep all your money with yourself? On this, the woman replied - Yes, this is exactly what happens, and that is why we fight a lot. 

We again asked her– Have you ever told your husband "why do you waste your money there if your mother doesn't care for you." We also enquired her that "Whether her husband has two brothers?" Then she replied, "yes, my husband is older." Now the second most significant thing we wanted to know is that in case of any functions etc., in the house, does your husband get the deserved respect? Or is there any mistake in it? She replied, "No, one even cares for him." According to her words, her younger brother-in-law has more respect than her husband. 

Now, we asked her the third significant point "whether your husband has huge ancestral property?" Her answer was, "Yes, he has a lot of land in the village and also has his own house." After getting answers to all our questions, we told her that Saturn is sitting in the eighth house of your husband, which provides long life to your husband and also gives indications for ancestral property, which is also related to the fourth and eighth house. We informed her that if your husband does not strike a proper balance with his parents, he may not get his rightful share in the ancestral property. That means you may get deprived of your share in the ancestral property. If you sleep with the sheet stretched, thinking that money will come to you automatically, it isn't going to happen. 

We advise you to let your husband do a little more service to your mother-in-law and father-in-law. Please don't worry about money. After checking your husband's horoscope, we come to know that, he does not spend much money on his mother. If your husband spends even a penny, you feel like he is wasting his entire wealth. According to your horoscope, Ketu and Moon is located in the fourth house. You must understand that your husband spends a minimal amount to help his mother, and you don't like that either.

Here, you need to understand that even if your husband earns ₹ 100 and spends 2-4 rupees on his parents, then this is an excellent investment for you to get big ancestral property. So forget everything, and allow your husband to serve his mother happily; otherwise, you will be in a lot of trouble. It would help if you changed your behavior,  lest it happens that when the time comes to read the will, your name is not there, or you get a minimal share in your ancestral property. 

Now, let's try to understand this situation from a different angle. Is it okay if, instead of your husband, it was your brother doing as much as your husband does? Try to put yourself in the place of your husband's situation; you yourself will feel that your husband is not doing much. Instead, he should do more than what he is doing. Besides this, you should keep a Shrikhand gem at home, worship it regularly, and start fasting on Sundays. By doing this, you will start getting beneficial results. 

The woman in this incident only sees her own, She wants her husband to work only for her, and even when her husband speaks for someone, she finds it offensive. When we told her that she would not be able to inherit the ancestral property if she restrained her husband even a little bit, she got agitated.

We should understand that ego is the weakness of a man. And the more one is full of ego, the weaker he is. Unfortunately, we are all full of ego. The ego can destroy a person's personality in such a way that no remedy can heal it.  

To illustrate this point better, I want to mention another phone call. We received a phone call, and the person said, "I am Girdhari Lal speaking from Bhopal. Guru ji, I am in big trouble. Everyone has left me at this stage of age. Even my wife lives with kids separately from me. Everyone wants to stay away from me. No one cares for me. Throughout my life, I have done everything for my family. I provide them with the best education, lifestyle, and everything for their marriages. But when their turn comes to do something for me, they turn their faces. I am fighting with my health issues these days, but everyone turned their back on me. I am sick, but no one asks me, and I am alone. What should I do to spend the rest of my life peacefully?" 

He provides us with the following information. 

Date of Birth- September 10, 1946

Birthplace- Katni

Time- 2:30 pm

On the basis of provided information, we made a horoscope and told him that his Sagittarius Ascendant comes at 13°. To collect some more information about him, we asked him various questions. First of all, we asked him, Whether his father died early. He replied, "Yes, he died at an early age." Our second question was, Whether the work or job you used to do was because of your father or your own efforts? He replied, "Yes, I got the job only because of my father." In brief, we can say that Girdhari lal ji got a job in place of his father because he was the eldest son of his family. 

Now, we come to our third question. We asked Girdhari lal ji how the condition of his teeth is at the moment. Is there any pain in that? Is it broken, or has it gone ahead from somewhere? In response to our question, he replied, "The front two teeth are broken, and overall, the condition of the teeth is not good." After this, we asked our fourth question, "how many children do you have?" To which he replied that "I have three boys and one girl. "After examining his horoscope deeply, we come to know that he would have had 4-5 younger siblings and his Mother would have lived long after his father passed away. He also confirmed that his mother had lived more than 18-20 years after his father's death. 

Based on the information received, we would like to say that all your statements are correct. We agree that you have raised your family. You have done everything for your brothers and sisters. You used to do a job and bring them up. You used to spend the money on their upbringing. You felt that you were bearing all their expenses. Your wife and children also had a feeling that you spent all your money on your siblings. At that time, you probably felt proud that you were the only one who used to take care of his family. You must have made sincere efforts to get them married also. As far as your children are concerned, you have also taken good care of them.  

But now you are feeling alone. You feel that nobody cares for you. In your situation, we want to let you know that, sometimes, some prideful feelings take place in our mind, and as a result, we start thinking that we are doing everything or we have done everything. However, we need to remember that there is always some supernatural power that supports us in getting things done. In this case, Girdhari lal ji forgets that he got a job in place of his father. He got this job because he was the eldest son of his family, and there were many dependent people on him after his father. 

You forget the fact that this job is a gift to you from God. Instead, you allow pride feelings to grow in your mind that you do everything for your family. Until now, you have spent approximately 30-40 years in this pride feeling. But now everything is falling upside down, and you are in trouble.

If, at that time, you had worked for your family with the feeling of dedication and devotion, and had not considered yourself to be a collector, then probably today, you would have a better life. You have undoubtedly done a lot for your family but left no stone unturned to show what you have done for them. Now, your siblings and children are acting against you. Even today, you love to glorify your acts before your family and children, that you have done a lot for them. But you have to understand the facts in their real sense. Nature chooses you like a conveyor belt; that is, you took it from somewhere and gave it somewhere. 

Now, we advise you to have some patience. It will take some time for your life to recover from all unfavorable conditions. Meanwhile, it would help if you started doing one small remedy that will benefit you. Start practicing meditation daily for at least 20 minutes in the morning. You will also get beneficial results by reciting three rounds of the moon mantra "Om Shran Shrin Shran Sah Chandramse Namah" every morning. By doing this, you will get happiness and peace of mind. You will be able to assess whether you have done good or bad in your life. As soon as you accept your mistakes, your life will start getting sweeter. It is also possible that your children and wife may return to your life. 

We hope, from the above two examples, you understand how your pride ruins your life. If you keep your donations secret, only then you will get a reward for that. According to our scriptures, if you keep that thing in your mind after donating something, you will not get any rewards for your donation. 

In the above example, Girdharilal ji is still alive inside their ego. Undoubtedly, he has done a lot for his family, but not a single day would have gone by when he had not made his family realize his sacrifices. Hence, we can't put his actions in the category of charity. Generally, you get a reward for your good actions and donations in your next birth. But Girdhari lal ji got the rewards in the same birth. All his near and dear ones left him to live alone. 

How important is it to purify your Karma?

You, too, must have seen many such people around you who help the needy but do not fail to glorify the work done by them. Whenever they get a chance, they start praising themselves. However, due to this habit, they will not get any benefit from their donations. But sometimes, they have to bear the anger of the people who have taken the donation. Hence, if you do something for any person, please refrain from wishing for fruit at all. 

We advise you to do your actions and leave the rest to destiny. Destiny will surely pay back for your actions. We want to draw your attention to one more important thing: the purification of Karma according to Vedic rules. Because if we don't follow the vedic rules, we will not get any benefits in our lives, even for our good actions. However, negative entries begin to occur in the passbook of our destiny, which is a record of our deeds during our lifecycles. With our special karma rectification techniques, you can get rid of these situations only at Bajrangi Dham. We advise you to consult us at least once with your horoscope to purify and rectify your Karma.