Love Marriage Astrology - Success and Failure

What is most important in a Love marriage?

The most important thing for love marriage in horoscope is to check the relationship compatibility. Love marriage aspirants sometimes, due to many compulsions, just go for stereo type Gun Milan and prevail upon the parents that they can marry. They may not even be interested in looking into the important aspects of relationship compatibility, which later become the reasons for the failure of Love marriage. I will explain those relationship compatibility factors separately. But here, let us see what are the planetary combinations which become decisive factors for any love marriage in a horoscope..  

Love marriage using Astrology

Astrology for Love marriage can help love mates just one way and it is by checking their compatibility factors. While in Love, two persons generally know each other & whatever they see in each other “till their present”. Checking of compatibility factors means how will they behave with each other “in future’” when it comes to their professions, finances, progeny, families with each other. Astrology for Love marriage also helps them to reconcile on many factors of behaviour which eventually become the reasons for disputes causing problems in a happy married life. Click on 'marriage compatibility factors' below to read how if these factors checked prior to love marriage will really help love marriage using astrology.

Love marriage by date of birth 

Date of birth of a person tells all about the characteristics, behaviour , professional and financial status of a person. Checking marriage compatibility in Love marriage by date of birth means one can get to know all these traits of opposite person. And in case of extreme differences in any of these traits, person can prepare own self how will they with such differences in future. In Love when two know each other then before marriage, it is always recommended to get these compatibility factors to ensure future of love marriage. Importance of marriage compatibility factors in a happy married life is already explained on the link given above. So it is clear how Love marriage  astrology by date of birth can mean a lot to the person. 

Why Love marriages fail more? 

Why love marriages fail more: the answer is simple. In love marriages, two love mates are obsessed & tend to ignore many future relationships' essentials. The age is also not the side of the maturity to take the accomplished decision. One tends to ignore many parameters and boundaries in which they will have to live post marriage. Even the small differences become big issues, and there in most cases, they don't get support from friends, family, and society. Why because they had ignored all of them while deciding to marry in love. 
This factor of love marriage failure in India can be more dominant as post marriage; there are a lot of social & family restrictions within which both have to live. In arranged marriages, many of such factors are perceived, discussed and reconciled before marriage between all these parties so chances of disagreement are reduced. But in a love marriage, especially where the marriage compatibility factors as explained above, are not checked, the two are left to struggle in life and finally succumb to the circumstances. Therefore love marriages fail more than the arranged marriages. But after checking the indication of Love marriage in horoscope, if the love mates spend a few minutes with a good marriage astrologer, then success of Love marriage rate will be much higher. 

Planetary Combinations for a Love marriage:

Regarding love marriage astrology, planets and their placements play a huge role. Let's find out the various astrological combinations that indicate whether you will have a love marriage in your horoscope. 

1. The Lagna and lagnesh-jataka reflect nature and character. Ascendant or Lagnesh's relation with the fifth and seventh house shows the possibility of love marriage in a birth chart.

2. The fifth virtue - shows the complete virtues of a person who has to marry along with his/her imaginations. It further indicates thoughts, feelings, friendship, love relations, and the progeny these two people will share. Venus, in the fifth house, if not inflicted, shows the pure and virtuous nature of Love. In love marriage, the relationship between the fifth and seventh house is mostly good.

3. The seventh house shows Marriage, Life-partner and Jataka's behaviour towards co-partners sexual lust. Marriage does not conform to elegant and social beliefs under the influence of sinful planets. If Mars is also in the seventh house with Venus, then you also ignore the subordinates of lust in relationships. It means the horoscope does not support a Love marriage.

4. Venus signifies sexual attraction, sexual pleasure, bedroom, beauty, desire to live, love experience, desire to enjoy cultural pleasure. Under the influence of Shani or Rahu, Venus makes a relationship with opposite sexes. Still, the end is often not happy, or there can be many obstacles in giving the relationship the form of marriage. Or we can say that there will be obstacles in converting the Love into a knot.

5. The ninth house shows the relation of the father in addition to the religious verse of the native. Hence, in the absence of Navam Bhava Navamsha or Jupiter's factor or its sinfulness, the person can also ignore his religious beliefs and duty towards his father and often run away from home to establish such relationships. 

6. If Lagna or Lagnesh have a fifth or seventh house or aspect of their Lords, there is a possibility of love marriage in horoscope. In this case, if Moon has a relation with the aspect of the ascendant or seventh house, then the possibility will also prevail.

7. If Rahu or Ketu are in the Lagna and Venus and Moon, the chances of love marriage in horoscope are brighter. Rahu and Ketu are from the Lagna, or from seventh or from Venus in the axis of 1: 7, 2: 8, then marriages often take place away from social beliefs.

8. Zodiac changes of Saptamesh and Panchamesh, or their togetherness, campus vision, or any other kind of relationship, indicate love marriage in the horoscope.

9. Rahu If Saturn, Mandi, or Mars have a strong position in the seventh house, then the person you will marry can be from a foreign land. Here it can also mean that they would be is associated with a foreign company, even if working in their own country.

10. If Venus is between two sinners - planets in the ninth place, then there will be something in the marriage to take place from social rules if the effect of auspicious planets cannot abolish this defect.

11. If Ashtamesh is in the seventh house with weak moon, then the persons can marry secretly or they get married beyond everyone's acceptance. It strenghtens the chances of love marriage in a horoscope.

12. There will be some irregularity in the marriage if the Sun and the Moon are in sight or sight from Mars and Saturn.

13. Marriage is beyond social beliefs if the Sun is in the seventh house with Rahu.

14. If the Sun is with Venus, marriage time is often not followed by social beliefs.

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Main reasons stopping love marriages

Above are the mentioned astrological facts and combinations which decide the possibility of Love Marriage. In addition to all these combinations, astrology has some of the unique tools to deal with some other problems that can be a dominant factor in your horoscope. Though all these are human reasons, your birth chart clearly indicates which and when these reasons can stop your love marriage. These reasons are:       

1. Parents not agreeing?

2. Status Problem?

3. Caste Problem?

4. Financial issues?

5. Fear of society?

6. Infidelity?

7. Are you already married and trying for a new bond?

8. Continues misunderstanding with the love partner?

9. Boredom?

10. Arguments?

If these are the dominant factors in your relationship, it is better to get the horoscopes evaluated before taking the plunge. A birth chart or kundli indicates such reasons which can stop your love marriage: parents not agreeing, the status of your spouse, financial status of your life partner, infidelity in a person, if this is your second marriage, will your spouse have a habit of arguments. So it is better to get the relationship compatibility checked before making a final decision on love marriage.

Then as all decisions have good and bad effects, love marriages also have their benefits and disadvantages. We should try to go deeper into the disadvantages of love marriage as in most cases, unanimous consent for marriage is a challenge.

Disadvantages of Love Marriage

In many cases, love affairs turn into love marriage with the consent of parents & complying with surrounding social factors. This can be due to persuasion or little pressures, but indirectly, support for love marriage is there. However, in many cases where two go ahead and tie the knot can face many problems from love marriage. Let us understand what could be the disadvantages and drawbacks of love marriage.

1. Disowned by the families:

One of the major issues which is faced by people who have done Love Marriage or inter-caste marriages. The couples who don't care about society and go ahead to get married are disowned as it is considered as a sin. A relationship advice has a definite solution to every friend.

2. The couple is ignored by the community

Not only the family of the couple but also these couples are made to cut off ties with even the society and the community majorly. These yoga's can be in your charts and these yoga's can anything be done about it and love affairs in astrology can be helpful for you.

3. Lifestyle differences become too wide to cope with

Partners may have a different lifestyle and culture as they must be belonging to a different caste. It is not a big deal that if anyone in the couple is conservative and the other one is open-minded. Their eating habits can also differ; may one like to eat vegetables, and the other one is a meat lover. It is also possible that a festival is important for one, whether it may not have any value for others. All these may be a reason for break up or may lose your love compatibility, so to strengthen astrology can resolve this entire crisis.

4. Continuous interference of the family members in married life

Even when both of your families approve of inter-caste marriages, one can notice a continuous interference of the family member in love marriage. They may try to force family's and caste norms on the married couples at times. Under such pressure, the couple may face some love problems and find themselves in the caste problem. Let astrology resolve this problem for you. 

5. Superiority complex may damage the relationship

In an inter-caste marriage, love life may be happening, but love problems may take wrong turns. A partner might have a thought related to his/ her caste may be superior to that of the other one. This will create a love problem and behavioural issues. And these are some of those problems which one easily sort with the help of astrology.  

6. Financial issues are faced by the couple

When an inter-caste marriage happens, the couple is left to manage their own financial health. It is generally seen that they receive no support received by families, and even friends may not be there to support. They would also miss the considerable part generally received during a regular marriage.  

7. Listen to taunts regularly

After the marriage, a couple must listen to regular taunts. Despite of accepting the marriage, relatives and friends may insult or humiliate the couples. Love problems arise when the wife is always criticized by in-laws related to her dressing sense or looks. She expects that her spouse to stand up for her and may have the energy or the courage. 

8. Difference in progeny matters

A couple might have disagreements when it comes to raising children. Love problems arise when the couple starts to disagree with each other at the stage of raising a child. For instance, there will be differences in opinion regarding which religion or caste the children must follow. 

All the above points can be dealt with a session of post-marriage counselling, and once it is done which assure you that the love marriage what you have dreamt off shall start living to expectations.

Benefits of love marriage

The most prudent benefit of love marriage is understanding life partner's nature, behaviour and overall attitude regarding life. When you marry someone absolutely a new, you take time to learn about the opposite spouse's basic traits and characteristics.

See how will be your love life with your partner - zodiac signs compatibility, marriage compatibility factors

You can also read how astrology helps you on post-marriage counselling?