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Love Marriage Astrology - Success and Failure

love marriage astrology

Love marriage or marrying after Love seems a royal road to choose the best partner who will walk with you for the rest of your life. You do not fall in Love with all the people you meet. Because someone has impressed you in some ways, you start liking them. This liking turns into a love relationship that will eventually mature into marriage if everything goes well.

Everyone should know the two aspects of Love and eventual marriage. I will soon be publishing a unique love or arranged marriage calculator, where you will be able to check the chances of your love marriage and check your love compatibility with the future life partner. In the meantime, all other facts about Love affairs and love marriage.

Will I have Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage? 

This is probably the most common anxiety in a person's mind reaching marriageable age. This will be more pertinent for those who are in Love. Because they want to know whether their love affair will turn into a love marriage? For others, it can be just an anxiety whether one will have a love marriage or arranged marriage.

A birth chart clearly indicates whether the person will have a love marriage or arranged marriage. There are specific planetary combinations to show what type of a marriage a person will have: Love or arranged marriage? Love marriage sometimes takes place after ignoring many social & family rules, but this is not a right marriage decision. People in Love should at least get the basic rules for a happy married life vetted through any good marriage astrologer. Now, I will explain what are these planets and combinations which support a Love marriage. 

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What is most important in a Love marriage?

The most important thing for love marriage in horoscope is to check the relationship compatibility. Love marriage aspirants sometimes, due to many compulsions, just go for stereo type Gun Milan and prevail upon the parents that they can marry. They may not even be interested in looking into the important aspects of relationship compatibility, which later become the reasons for the failure of Love marriage. I will explain those relationship compatibility factors separately. But here, let us see what are the planetary combinations which become decisive factors for any love marriage in a horoscope..  

What is most important in a Love marriage?

The most important thing for love marriage in horoscope is to check the relationship compatibility. Love marriage aspirants sometimes, due to many compulsions, just go for stereo type Gun Milan and prevail upon the parents that they can marry. They may not even be interested in looking into the important aspects of relationship compatibility, which later become the reasons for the failure of Love marriage. I will explain those relationship compatibility factors separately. But here, let us see what are the planetary combinations which become decisive factors for any love marriage in a horoscope..  

Love marriage using Astrology

Astrology for Love marriage can help love mates just one way and it is by checking their compatibility factors. While in Love, two persons generally know each other & whatever they see in each other “till their present”. Checking of compatibility factors means how will they behave with each other “in future’” when it comes to their professions, finances, progeny, families with each other. Astrology for Love marriage also helps them to reconcile on many factors of behaviour which eventually become the reasons for disputes causing problems in a happy married life. Click on 'marriage compatibility factors' below to read how if these factors checked prior to love marriage will really help love marriage using astrology.

Love marriage by date of birth 

Date of birth of a person tells all about the characteristics, behaviour , professional and financial status of a person. Checking marriage compatibility in Love marriage by date of birth means one can get to know all these traits of opposite person. And in case of extreme differences in any of these traits, person can prepare own self how will they with such differences in future. In Love when two know each other then before marriage, it is always recommended to get these compatibility factors to ensure future of love marriage. Importance of marriage compatibility factors in a happy married life is already explained on the link given above. So it is clear how Love marriage  astrology by date of birth can mean a lot to the person. 

Why Love marriages fail more? 

Why love marriages fail more: the answer is simple. In love marriages, two love mates are obsessed & tend to ignore many future relationships' essentials. The age is also not the side of the maturity to take the accomplished decision. One tends to ignore many parameters and boundaries in which they will have to live post marriage. Even the small differences become big issues, and there in most cases, they don't get support from friends, family, and society. Why because they had ignored all of them while deciding to marry in love. 
This factor of love marriage failure in India can be more dominant as post marriage; there are a lot of social & family restrictions within which both have to live. In arranged marriages, many of such factors are perceived, discussed and reconciled before marriage between all these parties so chances of disagreement are reduced. But in a love marriage, especially where the marriage compatibility factors as explained above, are not checked, the two are left to struggle in life and finally succumb to the circumstances. Therefore love marriages fail more than the arranged marriages. But after checking the indication of Love marriage in horoscope, if the love mates spend a few minutes with a good marriage astrologer, then success of Love marriage rate will be much higher. 

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Planetary Combinations for a Love marriage:

Regarding love marriage astrology, planets and their placements play a huge role. Let's find out the various astrological combinations that indicate whether you will have a love marriage in your horoscope. 

Planetary Combinations for a Love marriage:

Regarding love marriage astrology, planets and their placements play a huge role. Let's find out the various astrological combinations that indicate whether you will have a love marriage in your horoscope. 

1. The Lagna and lagnesh-jataka reflect nature and character. Ascendant or Lagnesh's relation with the fifth and seventh house shows the possibility of love marriage in a birth chart.

2. The fifth virtue - shows the complete virtues of a person who has to marry along with his/her imaginations. It further indicates thoughts, feelings, friendship, love relations, and the progeny these two people will share. Venus, in the fifth house, if not inflicted, shows the pure and virtuous nature of Love. In love marriage, the relationship between the fifth and seventh house is mostly good.

3. The seventh house shows Marriage, Life-partner and Jataka's behaviour towards co-partners sexual lust. Marriage does not conform to elegant and social beliefs under the influence of sinful planets. If Mars is also in the seventh house with Venus, then you also ignore the subordinates of lust in relationships. It means the horoscope does not support a Love marriage.

4. Venus signifies sexual attraction, sexual pleasure, bedroom, beauty, desire to live, love experience, desire to enjoy cultural pleasure. Under the influence of Shani or Rahu, Venus makes a relationship with opposite sexes. Still, the end is often not happy, or there can be many obstacles in giving the relationship the form of marriage. Or we can say that there will be obstacles in converting the Love into a knot.

5. The ninth house shows the relation of the father in addition to the religious verse of the native. Hence, in the absence of Navam Bhava Navamsha or Jupiter's factor or its sinfulness, the person can also ignore his religious beliefs and duty towards his father and often run away from home to establish such relationships. 

6. If Lagna or Lagnesh have a fifth or seventh house or aspect of their Lords, there is a possibility of love marriage in horoscope. In this case, if Moon has a relation with the aspect of the ascendant or seventh house, then the possibility will also prevail.

7. If Rahu or Ketu are in the Lagna and Venus and Moon, the chances of love marriage in horoscope are brighter. Rahu and Ketu are from the Lagna, or from seventh or from Venus in the axis of 1: 7, 2: 8, then marriages often take place away from social beliefs.

8. Zodiac changes of Saptamesh and Panchamesh, or their togetherness, campus vision, or any other kind of relationship, indicate love marriage in the horoscope.

9. Rahu If Saturn, Mandi, or Mars have a strong position in the seventh house, then the person you will marry can be from a foreign land. Here it can also mean that they would be is associated with a foreign company, even if working in their own country.

10. If Venus is between two sinners - planets in the ninth place, then there will be something in the marriage to take place from social rules if the effect of auspicious planets cannot abolish this defect.

11. If Ashtamesh is in the seventh house with weak moon, then the persons can marry secretly or they get married beyond everyone's acceptance. It strenghtens the chances of love marriage in a horoscope.

12. There will be some irregularity in the marriage if the Sun and the Moon are in sight or sight from Mars and Saturn.

13. Marriage is beyond social beliefs if the Sun is in the seventh house with Rahu.

14. If the Sun is with Venus, marriage time is often not followed by social beliefs.

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Main reasons stopping love marriages

Above are the mentioned astrological facts and combinations which decide the possibility of Love Marriage. In addition to all these combinations, astrology has some of the unique tools to deal with some other problems that can be a dominant factor in your horoscope. Though all these are human reasons, your birth chart clearly indicates which and when these reasons can stop your love marriage. These reasons are:       

Main reasons stopping love marriages

Above are the mentioned astrological facts and combinations which decide the possibility of Love Marriage. In addition to all these combinations, astrology has some of the unique tools to deal with some other problems that can be a dominant factor in your horoscope. Though all these are human reasons, your birth chart clearly indicates which and when these reasons can stop your love marriage. These reasons are:       

1. Parents not agreeing?

2. Status Problem?

3. Caste Problem?

4. Financial issues?

5. Fear of society?

6. Infidelity?

7. Are you already married and trying for a new bond?

8. Continues misunderstanding with the love partner?

9. Boredom?

10. Arguments?

If these are the dominant factors in your relationship, it is better to get the horoscopes evaluated before taking the plunge. A birth chart or kundli indicates such reasons which can stop your love marriage: parents not agreeing, the status of your spouse, financial status of your life partner, infidelity in a person, if this is your second marriage, will your spouse have a habit of arguments. So it is better to get the relationship compatibility checked before making a final decision on love marriage.

Then as all decisions have good and bad effects, love marriages also have their benefits and disadvantages. We should try to go deeper into the disadvantages of love marriage as in most cases, unanimous consent for marriage is a challenge.

Disadvantages of Love Marriage

In many cases, love affairs turn into love marriage with the consent of parents & complying with surrounding social factors. This can be due to persuasion or little pressures, but indirectly, support for love marriage is there. However, in many cases where two go ahead and tie the knot can face many problems from love marriage. Let us understand what could be the disadvantages and drawbacks of love marriage.

Disadvantages of Love Marriage

In many cases, love affairs turn into love marriage with the consent of parents & complying with surrounding social factors. This can be due to persuasion or little pressures, but indirectly, support for love marriage is there. However, in many cases where two go ahead and tie the knot can face many problems from love marriage. Let us understand what could be the disadvantages and drawbacks of love marriage.

1. Disowned by the families:

One of the major issues which is faced by people who have done Love Marriage or inter-caste marriages. The couples who don't care about society and go ahead to get married are disowned as it is considered as a sin. A relationship advice has a definite solution to every friend.

2. The couple is ignored by the community

Not only the family of the couple but also these couples are made to cut off ties with even the society and the community majorly. These yoga's can be in your charts and these yoga's can anything be done about it and love affairs in astrology can be helpful for you.

3. Lifestyle differences become too wide to cope with

Partners may have a different lifestyle and culture as they must be belonging to a different caste. It is not a big deal that if anyone in the couple is conservative and the other one is open-minded. Their eating habits can also differ; may one like to eat vegetables, and the other one is a meat lover. It is also possible that a festival is important for one, whether it may not have any value for others. All these may be a reason for break up or may lose your love compatibility, so to strengthen astrology can resolve this entire crisis.

4. Continuous interference of the family members in married life

Even when both of your families approve of inter-caste marriages, one can notice a continuous interference of the family member in love marriage. They may try to force family's and caste norms on the married couples at times. Under such pressure, the couple may face some love problems and find themselves in the caste problem. Let astrology resolve this problem for you. 

5. Superiority complex may damage the relationship

In an inter-caste marriage, love life may be happening, but love problems may take wrong turns. A partner might have a thought related to his/ her caste may be superior to that of the other one. This will create a love problem and behavioural issues. And these are some of those problems which one easily sort with the help of astrology.  

6. Financial issues are faced by the couple

When an inter-caste marriage happens, the couple is left to manage their own financial health. It is generally seen that they receive no support received by families, and even friends may not be there to support. They would also miss the considerable part generally received during a regular marriage.  

7. Listen to taunts regularly

After the marriage, a couple must listen to regular taunts. Despite of accepting the marriage, relatives and friends may insult or humiliate the couples. Love problems arise when the wife is always criticized by in-laws related to her dressing sense or looks. She expects that her spouse to stand up for her and may have the energy or the courage. 

8. Difference in progeny matters

A couple might have disagreements when it comes to raising children. Love problems arise when the couple starts to disagree with each other at the stage of raising a child. For instance, there will be differences in opinion regarding which religion or caste the children must follow. 

All the above points can be dealt with a session of post-marriage counselling, and once it is done which assure you that the love marriage what you have dreamt off shall start living to expectations.

Benefits of love marriage

The most prudent benefit of love marriage is understanding life partner's nature, behaviour and overall attitude regarding life. When you marry someone absolutely a new, you take time to learn about the opposite spouse's basic traits and characteristics.

See how will be your love life with your partner - zodiac signs compatibilitymarriage compatibility factors

You can also read how astrology helps you on post-marriage counselling?

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FAQs

  • How can astrology help in Love Marriage? Are there yogas of Love Marriage in my birth chart?

    In today's contemporary civilization, love marriages are not a social stigma. They have become a trend among the youth, who often fell in love at first due to infatuation and later make up their minds to tie the knot. Nevertheless, it has been perceived visually that some young men and women, despite having everything, including an attractive spouse end up with an extramarital relationship. Do you know why it happens? Most young men and women are not aware of the yogas of love marriages in their birth chart. Instead, they marry someone whom they did not know well before the wedding and spoil their relationships. 

    Let us peep into the natal chart that throws light on the love affairs and relationships of a native. In one's kundali, the planets—Venus and the fifth house—throws light on native's love relationship. The planets—Saturn, Rahu, and Ketu—are the stumbling blocks of love. The third, seventh, and eleventh houses show desire, and the twelfth house represents sexual pleasure. Due to different planetary conditions in different houses, various types of relationships arise—a love affair, a secret love affair, romantic relationships, extramarital affairs, and illicit affairs.

  • Are Love Marriages successful? How can we calculate Love Compatibility with astrology?

    Every individual has his or her own virtue, vices, appearances, and preference. An ordinary person cannot know what brews in their hearts and minds. It is quite difficult for anyone to know one’s subconscious desires. At this point, astrology proves very helpful. Vedic Jyotish has many tools and techniques that can shed light on one’s preferences, needs, and psychological make-ups. The configuration of three planets—Venus, Mars, and Moon—in different houses help an astrologer calculate the love and compatibility of a native. As a result, the native will get a compatible pair and will not be remorseful for passing his or her life with a bugger.  

    The role of Venus and Mars in the natal chart:

    Venus: This planet helps an astrologer to understand the ‘love language’ of a native. If it has a benefic position in one’s natal chart, he or she will be very expressive to his or her life partner. On the contrary, if it has a malefic position in one’s chart, it will hamper one’s ability to express love and trust to its opposite sex.

    Mars: This plant throws light on the native’s practical aspect of love affairs and sexual needs. Its benefic effect will help a native to have a strong love and sexual desires. Conversely, its malefic effect will make the native inexpressive.

  • Love marriage vs Arrange marriage

    “Nothing grows more easily than love” is a standard quote that most of us are familiar with. Great research is still in progress to explore what chemical process goes on when two opposite sexes meet each other. This is the beginning of their love affair. Are the love birds able to live happily after marriage? Love marriage results from an infatuation, and love birds tie the knot without matching their horoscopes, which often result in conflict, turmoil, and distress. The planets that are responsible for such an unfavourable condition are Rahu, Mars, and Saturn. On the contrary, arrange marriages are solemnized amidst chanting of Mantras after matching bride and groom’s horoscopes, in the presence of parents, elders, guests, etc. So, such type of marriage is 100% success.

    Now, we will discuss the disadvantages of love marriage. As discussed above, love marriages are solemnized without matching bride and groom’s horoscope and parents ‘consent; the problems that crop up include lack of family support, expectations, freedom, lack of proper guidance, the opposition of parents, dispute due to families, the truth about each other, finances, change of surname and lack of maturity. All in all, it can be inferred that an arrange marriage is much better than a love marriage. 

  • How can my birth chart indicate the Yogas of Love Marriage in my life?

    Astrology sheds light on many planetary configurations, which enable a native to fall in love with someone and then tie the knot. The planets—Ketu, Rahu, Moon, and Mars—play a crucial role in a love marriage of the native. Venus throws light on native’s sexual relations, and the moon is responsible for love at first sight. Similarly, Mars enable the naïve to take risks while Ketu and Rahu allow the native to break off the traditions. Altogether, they throw light on the various aspects of love and marriage in native’s life. 

    Now, let’s look at what possible yogas are responsible or marriage astrology:

    If the lords of the fifth and seventh houses are related to each other, they tend to form yogas for love marriage in the native’s birth chart. If Venus and Rahu are in sync in one’s horoscope, then native may marry for love. If Rahu is in sync with the lord of the seventh house, then it allows native for an inter-caste marriage. If the lords of the fifth and seventh houses are in conjunction, and Jupiter is aspecting this planetary combination, then the love marriage will get a green signal from the family. Likewise, there are many such planetary configurations that are responsible for various yogas in native’s horoscope.

  • According to my birth chart, will I have a Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage

    Yes, why not! Astrology can easily give predictions about your love marriage or arranged marriage. Besides, your birth chart also provides details about your would-be life partner. Let us take a glance at various factors responsible for your love marriage or arranged marriage.

    Houses that are responsible for love marriage predictions by date of birth

    The fifth, seventh, eighth, and eleventh houses are responsible for creating love marriage yogas in native’s birth chart. You must study the zodiac signs of Pisces, Scorpio, and Gemini while examining your birth chart for any query related to love marriage or arranged marriage. The planets—Mars, Venus, Rahu, Moon, and Mercury—are responsible for creating yogas of love marriage or arranged marriage. Their placement and various combinations are considered for love marriage predictions by date of birth.

    Planets for love marriage predictions by date of birth

    Venus throws light on the love of native’s life. So, its placement and afflictions are examined thoroughly for love marriage predictions by date of birth. Mars signifies the fiery passion within the native. It gives an idea about her boyfriend. Rahu is a significator of the unsatiated desire of a native and encourages him or her to go against the social and cultural norms. Mercury allows natives to enjoy life and have lots of fun. The Moon is essential for love marriage predictions done by date of birth.

  • What causes separation in Romantic Relationships? Why do some affairs not culminate in Love Marriage?

    According to astrology, there are certain yogas in the natives' horoscope, which forces them to have a love marriage. For instance–if a native is undergoing Mahadasha, they are likely to get attracted to someone. Usually, many love affairs begin under the Dashas of the Moon, Venus, Rahu, and Mercury, irrespective of their placements in a kundali. The seventh house in native's kundali signifies his or her married life. So, whether your relationship will culminate in a love marriage or not depends on its afflictions. If Saptamesh has no relations with Lagnesh, the Panchamesh, then astrology states that separation between husband and wife is inevitable.  

    Apart from the factors mentioned above, the ongoing Dashas are also responsible for a romantic relationship coming to a grinding halt. Now, look at all these Dashas and yogas, which causes a love affair's premature ending. The sixth house in a kundali is a significator of violence. So, if the native is undergoing a Dasha of the sixth house, their romantic relationships will be unsuccessful. Similarly, if a native is under the Dashas of the Ashtamesh, then too, their affair will come to an end prematurely. Likewise, there are many such Dashas, under which various predictions can be made. 

  • Why are Love Marriages not successful in India?

    It would not be apt to say that all love marriages fail in India. Nor will it be appropriate to say that all arranged marriages are completely successful. There are many factors responsible for unsuccessful marriages. 

    Let us peep into those factors associated with unsuccessful marriages. They include both astrological and psychological reasons.

    Psychological causes of love marriages

    The first cause is the disapproval of families. That means parents do not allow their children to marry someone they love due to their narrow mindedness. The second cause is that bride and groom are treated unequally in case she is at a higher post than him. The third reason is that young men and women tie the knot with their soulmates without knowing their negative aspects. The fourth reason is that both the bride and groom are supposed to adopt certain changes after marriage, which becomes difficult for them. Last but not least, the status of the bride is higher than the status of the groom, which creates an ego in the groom’s mind. 

    Astrological Causes of Love Marriage Problems

    Yogas in the natal charts of both bride and groom play a vital role in making their married life successful. The fifth, seventh, eighth, and eleventh houses are solely responsible for yogas in love marriages. Similarly, the planets—Mercury, Moon, Mars, and Venus—are examined for dealing with problems in love marriages. An expert astrologer discerns these problems and points them out beforehand after reviewing the Birth Charts of both the bride and groom.

  • Which house is responsible for love marriage?

    The 7th, 5th, 8th and 11th houses in your horoscope provide a detailed, correct and appropriate understanding of the existence of love and romance in your life.

  • Which planet is responsible for love marriage?

    Planet Venus governs love, marriage and romance in an individual’s life. The planet also decides the success or failure of your love life, including the marital prospects.

  • Which planet is responsible for arranged marriage?

    Venus is the planet that facilitates marriage in a person’s life. Its conjunction with different planets like Jupiter, Mercury, Moon, Mars, Saturn, etc leads to positive or negative impact on a person’s marriage.