Delay in marriage - what should you do to get married soon

Time is running out, and most of your classmates have already been hitched to suitable partners. It is only your turn now that it is waiting. Don’t worry if delay in marriage is your present concern, you have reached the right page to know the reasons for delayed marriage. Do you think you missed the bus or the bus missed you? It can be either way, but both become the reasons to delay your marriage. 
इस पेज को हिंदी में पढ़ने के लिए “विवाह में देरी” पर क्लिक करें।​

Gone are the days when the child grows and the family decides to marry the child. It is more pertinent for females. But now the situation has changed to bring both males/females on the same footings to decide when and whom to marry. 

The overall perception of looking for the best life partner has changed. But then sometimes our own interest and too many futuristic parameters for the spouse also delay the marriage. That is where I say the buses came, but you kept waiting for the next one. Another factor for delay in marriage is career orientation. Being career-focused is all right, but not at the cost where you miss the right age for marriage. 

How astrology helps if marriage is delayed

There are specific cycles for the marriage period in a horoscope. Once you miss the best marriage cycle as per your horoscope for whatever reasons, you have to wait for another cycle to become active. This can be due to planetary positions, socio-economic reasons, or deliberate reasons, as explained above. Now, if delay in marriage has reasons, delayed marriage has some repercussions also. But let me tell you, there are defined ways in astrology to find reasons for delay in marriage.  

The reasons for delay could be person-specific, but then the horoscope is also person-specific, so all such reasons for delayed marriage can be identified in Astrology from horoscope. If there is delay in your marriage and you get to know the exact reasons for this, you will not miss the bus forever to land into what many say a No marriage Yoga. I firmly believe if the exact reasons for delay in marriage are identified, all can get married. Once we spot such likelihood for the delay in your marriage as per date of birth, we immediately take necessary action to bring powerful delay marriage solutions to you even if you say there is no marriage yoga in my kundli. It is the astrologer's job to find the reason for the delay in marriage as per the date of birth. 

I am sure, and by now, you must have hovered your fingers a couple of times on the delayed marriage calculator because curiosity killed the cat. The delayed marriage calculator can also double up as a no marriage yoga calculator.

Okay. You look up your calculator to check if you have any chance to marry and sadly find no such yoga written for you. Keep calm, fight that depression, rest for a second and let me continue. Depression should not be your first reaction to no marriage yoga. Instead, look around for ways to work out some positive outcomes. Late or no marriage situations can be known in advance by just getting your horoscope assessed. 

Which house is seen for delay in marriage

There are specific houses seen for delay in marriage. You can certainly know beforehand at what age you will marry. Following are the houses, planets, Dasha, and transits of planets, reading of which can explain the causes and remedies for delay in marriage.

House for Marriage: As per Vedic astrology, the 7th house is the main house of marriage. But to finalize any alliance, you need to know about two more houses, viz. the 2nd and the 11th. The 2nd house represents the family and any addition to the family. The 11th house denotes friendship. Details about your life partner can be procured from this house as well. After all, a life partner is a lifelong friend. Also, the 11th house is the house of wish fulfillment. If it is a love marriage that you want to know about, consider the fifth house can tell you a lot. 

Two main significators of marriage are Venus in a male chart and Jupiter in a female chart. Apart from these, the influence of the following is also considered:

1. The lords of 2nd, 7th, and 11th houses

2. Lord of the house in which the 7th lord is placed

3. The Navmansha sign of the 7th lord

4. Planets placed in the 7th house

5. Planets that conjunct the 7th lord

6. Lord of the 5th house in case of love marriage

7. The Nakshatra lords of the above planets.

Dashas: Marriage can take place during the Dashas of the planets, as mentioned earlier.

Transit: Dual Transit of Saturn and Jupiter influencing the first house and the 7th house, or their lords give a detailed insight into the time of marriage.

By reading the above planets, planets Dasha and transits, you can develop some powerful solutions that effectively address the delay. 

Mind you, figuring out remedies for marriage delays is a tough job, and only experts can manage it skillfully. Some people have tried early marriage remedies, but they have failed. 

Reasons for delay in marriage

Reasons for delay in marriage can be seen from the horoscope. According to the Horoscope, astrological reasons for Delay in Marriage are due to some planets ruling the 7th house. These naturally tend to delay in marriage, as given in the table below:

If the 7th lord is under auspicious influences in the birth chart, then the above ages can be reduced by two years. But if the 7th lord is under negative or unfavorable influences, then the above ages can be further increased by 2 to 3 years.

Once we know which planet is causing delay, we can then work out astrological remedies with aplomb. 

But, before jumping to any conclusions, I recommend using the 'No marriage Yoga calculator' given above for better understanding.

Combinations for delay in marriage 

There are different combinations for delay in marriage seen from horoscope. Following are some indications observed in the birth charts of real-life delayed marriages, as per date of birth.

1. Sun and Rahu combination can delay a marriage, especially if it is linked with the house of marriage. 

2, A conjunction of Mars with Rahu either in the 7th house or aspecting the 7th lord.

3. If there is an exchange of words of 7th and 8th houses in the chart, if the 7th lord is in the 8th house and the 8th lord is in the 7th house, then the marriage can be delayed.

4. In the birth chart of a male, if there is a conjunction of Saturn and Moon, there can usually be many obstacles that may be responsible for late marriage in the horoscope.

5. In a birth chart, the malefic aspects of Saturn or Lords on any one or more out of the ascendant, ascendant Lord, 7th house, and the 7th lord can delay one's marriage.

6. The presence of the Mangal Dosha in a kundali usually delays one's marriage. This dosha is formed due to the placement of Mars in 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th, or 12th houses. Some also add the 2nd house to this list.

7. The mangal dosha must be seen as per the ascendant, the Moon chart (by reorienting the birth chart and making the house where the Moon is placed as the ascendant), and Venus chart (by reorienting the birth chart and making the house where Venus is placed as the ascendant). This dosha gets strengthened if present in more than one chart out of these three. Also, get the birth chart analyzed accurately for getting the kundli dosh canceled. 

The above are a few combinations in astrology for delay in marriage and I deal with every combination separately to find a spot-on remedy for the delay in marriage.

It is good to lean on and blame the past karma for every problematic phase in life. But for marriage, it is not good to wait and continue to suffer. It is best to consult an astrologer and see if the dosha, if any, can be canceled, and you can have the life of your choice.

Solutions for delayed marriage 

Before you start looking for reasons/solutions for late marriage, best solution to avoid delay in marriage is to refine your search for the best life partner. Read more on how to find best life partner using date of birth. Now, to figure out the solutions for delay in marriage, we need to understand reasons for delayed marriage. I, while working out solutions for delay in marriage consider the following points:

1. Impact of past life or past of present life becoming a hindrance. 

2. Mangal or Manglik Doshas in the Kundli.

3. Obstructions from within the family members.

4. Education & status level of the child, especially that of a girl child.

5. Hidden inclination towards opposite sex friend.

6. Too many expectations from the other side.

6. Hidden weaknesses in an individual.

All the above factors are reviewed and co-related by analyzing different charts (D-1, D-9, and D-60). This helps in coming to the root of delay in marriage reasons solutions.

A solution for the delay in marriage could be worked out. Delayed marriage problems could escalate into more difficult situations. Let us analyze the outcomes of late marriage in kundli. 

What happens if marriage is late/delayed

Once we know reasons/solutions for delay in marriage, our first endeavor should be to marry within the best marriage cycle. Because if you miss the best probable period of marriage, one should know what happens if the marriage is delayed/late. Late marriage has far-reaching consequences; the consequences reach from the neighborhood to all those in your social circle and finally invite some backlashes from all those concerned and unconcerned. Earlier, you might have been just economically challenged, but now with the delay in marriage, you are socially challenged as well. The social and psychological pressure cripples you. The family might reel in shock, friends might backbite, you may feel worthless and inferior, some strange untold sicknesses haunt you from time to time. Deep-set frustration occupies your whole existence, thus making your entire life meaningless. There are other reasons that permanently damage you physically and psychologically.

Click here to watch "What Dr. Vinay Bajrangi say about Reasons for Delay In Marriage".

Let me explain a few points what happens if the marriage is late:

1. Depression (do not ask why)

2. Childbirth becomes an issue in the later years. ​

3. Financial incompatibility worsens. 

4. The chances of getting a perfect partner are bleak as your Mr. Right would have already married and settled down with whosoever he feels right with.

5. With age, people would have taken up new responsibilities which they find hard to shake off. This may be a fly-in-the-ointment for marriage.

6. Late marriages cannot raise happy families, as a rule. 

7. The older you are, the greater the number of your affairs are, and that may ruin your chances and dreams of getting married. 

8. With age, we grow inflexible, and our first reaction to the thought of adjusting with the other is a flat refusal. We cannot think of marriage under these circumstances. 

All these problems can be guessed beforehand by systematically reading your chart by an expert who can suggest answers for the delay.

So better late than never. Look for a proper astrologer to check your chart before too late. Delay in marriage solutions is varied. Late marriage as per date of birth can be analyzed to the truest detail.

You can also read how astrology helps you on love marriage and Horoscope Matching?