Spouse Search For Marriage Ends Here

Spouse Search For Marriage Ends Here

A marriage needs 2 things essentially apart other paraphernalia i.e compatible spouse & proper time for marriage. The quest for marriage & search for compatible spouse begins to convert a house into home. Once a person settles in job, profession or business, this quest for marriage & locating suitable spouse intensifies. And why not as marriage is one of the most exciting event in the life of a normal human being. And getting a perfect spouse blesses the life for ever. However another fact here is in modern society, this simple thing is becoming more and more complicated. The days of male dominating society have gone.Women’s liberation, increasing effects of social media add to the aspirations that we look in “would be” spouse. And after getting a perfect spouse for marriage, the elements leading to breaking the marriage starts looming and disturbing two souls & their respective families. A person may not be able to find a spouse, or the marriage parleys would often break for no evident reason.

Known Reasons for not finding perfect spouse.

I am a witness to many stories where:

  1. Despite everything good, the perfect match is hard to get.
  2. No proposal comes despite everything excellent.
  3. There are parleys, negotiations, but they won’t proceed after a first few steps.
  4. The standards set for the spouse to be are way too high and not achievable.
  5. Sometime someone close to the native also plays the spoilsport in finding suitable spouse.

These are the few apparent reasons that restrict  someone’s search for perfect spouse & restricting Marriage.

Unknown reasons restricting marriage prospects 

But there are few others genuine reasons which are hard to understand. However, these reasons make the search for a perfect spouse a traumatic experience & block the chance of marriage. Some of  these are:

  1. Too much expectations & sticking to religion, cast, social status, financial status etc of the “would be” spouse.
  2. No trusting nature.
  3. Wanting too much without knowing what to give.
  4. The selfish personality.
  5. Being a critic or criticizing nature.
  6. Self-centric person.
  7. Inability to empathize.
  8. “The not so sure” personality.
  9. The over reactor ones.
  10. The loner.

How to refine search for “would be” Spouse.

Astrological reading of a horoscope has the potential to tell you many things about your “would be” spouse.  Now this is a tool which helps you to move in the right direction with correct prospective in mind looking for spouse. You can know as to spouse would come from :

  1. Marriage would be Love or arranged.
  2. Within or outside Country.
  3. Geographical idea with direction like  N E W S.
  4. Nearer or farther from your place.
  5. Professional background like in job, in business & like-wise.
  6. Social & economical background of the spouse & family.
  7. Nuclear or with larger family etc.

Now once we are in search of a spouse & someone guides us on the above parameters, am sure your search becomes refined. Furthermore it certainly  dilutes some factors on which either the aspirant self or the family is either over-ambitious or excessive protective. Let my long experience confirm here that sometimes these factor or factors  become ardent in search of a perfect spouse.

Horoscope readings for Finding perfect spouse.

During the analyzing sessions with those who couldn’t marry even after extraordinary efforts, I have come up with reasons as enumerated above that forbids the person from marrying. The horoscopic reason is a negatively afflicted Lagna and the tarnished Lagna Lord. However, there are very few who realize that they have been groomed up with this kind of disability and fewer are those who would work to correct out this deficiency in them.

My research work prompts me to look into the horoscope of those who couldn’t marry and figure out what is stopping them from achieving that fete. I have figured out many astrological reasons and the consequences they have in the native life. I will explain & reproduce the same as below.

The Du-Sthana from the house of marriage

The Du-Sthanas are the 6th house, the 8th house and the 12th house from the house they are seen. These houses try and restrict the growth of the house concerned. Now, the house of spouse and marriage is the 7th from Lagna, and the Du-Sthanas from this house are the 12th house, the 2nd house and the 6th house from Lagna. These houses work against the well being of the 7th house (about marriage and spouse) in question. If there is some planet placed in this house, it would further complicate the issue as in addition to that house and its lord, another planet has added in strength to trouble the native as regards to marriage.

For example, Sun in the 12th house points a finger toward the father or Job, which more often than not play a spoilsport in solemnizing the marriage of the native. It also reflects toward the self-fish personality of the native. And it becomes evident, as soon as the conversations for wedding begin.

The supporter of these Du-Sthana

YES! These Du-Sthanas can have ardent supporters which further delay or deny the marriage. These supporters are the planets placed in Trines/ Trikona or Kendras to these Du-Sthanas. The Du-Sthanas draw strength out of these supporters and become fiercer in denying things.

For example: When the sun, deciphers in the 12th house, the father may be playing a spoilsport in the marriage event of his child. Do not take it literally, it can be that he has set some standards which are becoming hard to fulfill. And from this sun in the 12th house say Saturn is placed in 3rd  house ( Kendra), or Rahu is placed in the 4th house  then this Sun is drawing considerable strength from these positions of Saturn or Rahu or any other planet that occupy the trine or the Kendra position from it (the Sun) which is negating the marriage.

The Karaka of marriage

Venus is the karaka or marriage whereas for a female horoscope there is an additional Karaka which is the Jupiter. If these karakas are ill-disposed in a horoscope in respect to the 7th house (for which they are the doer Karaka), the marriage is further delayed as any of the above factors which negate the finding of spouse gets activated:

So, it is not only the lord of 7th house or the 7th house which could jeopardize the chances of finding perfect spouse, the critical factors as discussed above can ruin the chances of marriage in such a fashion that the right partner always remains far from the sight.

Can Astrology help finding perfect Spouse 

There are treatments; a comprehensive analysis can make us conclude the loopholes which are negating the chances of even meeting a person for marriage let alone the actual marriage. Accurate astrology can easily find what are these factors & further how to improvise them. It is not that the standards that we set, are high but the rigidity is such that it makes us look no further. A complete analysis can help us evade the:

  1. Deceit if there is any.
  2. Can help us lower or correct the bar of financial status, the relocation tantrums, the caste, and sub-caste rigidity, etc. that we have set.
  3. Can prevent multiple rejections.

And further, realign the thought process so that the perfect match is not far away. Remember, do not complicate the already problematic Yogas of no-marriage in your horoscope, get assistance for a way out.

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  1. Guru Ji pranaam meri beti ki dob 5/10/94, tob 9:40 pm POB bijnor up h.mere beti me b.tech computer science se kia hua hai.mai janna chahti hu k uski job kis field me rhegi govt. Ya private.ya fir usko kis field mejama chahye jo usk liye acha ho aur uska future kaisa rhega overall.

    • Govt Job Ki Sambhavna Bahut Kam Hai.

  2. Sir fir use kis field m pryas karna chahiye .any remedy or shaadi j kya yog hn uske father no hn or merit earning hand to mouth hi h plz help

  3. Guru ji pranam..mai apni job ke bare me puchna chahti hu..guru ji April 2018 me marriage hone ke baad se mai Delhi me shift hou gai hu..tabse mere pas koi job Nahi hai..please aap Mujhe batayea ki Meri job kab tak lagegi?
    Date of birth- 14 April,1993
    Time- 2.04 p.m
    Place- Haridwar (Uttarakhand)

  4. Hello sir,
    My name is simmi agrawal.My birthdate is 02/10/1990.My birth time is 6:30 am.Sir meri shaadi kab hogi.Hogi b ya nai hogi.Koi b ladka dekho vo mana Kar de ya hamari taraf se Na ho jati h.muje ladka or parivar kesha milega.Muje ladka meri field ka milega.Meri shaadi b nai ho rahi or job b change nai ho rahi.Mere ghar me b bohot Ashanti hai.koi b kam me sirf asafalta milti h..Please aap meri problem ka solution dhe meri shaadi kab hogi or job kab change hogi.Me bohot pareshan ho gai ho.Please Guruji…

  5. गुरूजी सादर प्रणाम ।
    मेरा नाम कैलाश चन्द्र बुधलाकोटी है । मैं 32 साल का हूँ । मैं सरकारी नौकरी प्राप्ति हेतु प्रयासरत हूँ ।परन्तु अभी तक कहीं भी सफलता प्राप्त नहीं हुई ।क्या मुझे और समय इसके लिए लगाना चाहिए या आजीविका हेतु अन्य कुछ सोचना चाहिए ? कृपया मेरा मार्गदर्शन कर दीजिये । मैं आपका आभारी रहूँगा । मेरा जन्म समय की सही जानकारी नहीं हो पाने के कारण मैं अपने पुत्र की जन्म तिथि व विवरण भेज रहा हूँ ।
    नाम – हार्दिक
    दिनाँक – 20 नवंबर 2016
    समय -1 बजकर 19 मिनट दिन में (13:19)
    स्थान – हल्द्वानी
    उम्मीद और आशा करता हूँ कि आप अपनी ज्योतिष विद्वता से मुझ अकिंचन का भी उद्धार अवश्य करेंगे ।

    • कैलाश जी अपने अपनी D.O.B सही नहीं हैं | .

  6. I am Mr. Debajyoti Adhya, a 43 years old unmarried MALE from Kolkata. Despite trying desperately for the last several years, I am unable to get married due to my poor health and low & unstable income. My question is : will I ever get married in THIS life-time ? If so, then WHEN ? My birth details : 26th September 1975 (Friday), at 9:14 PM (IST), in North Kolkata. Thank you !

    • Mr. Debajyoti, The yoga to get married is very very weak. The Navamsha too does not support this Yoga. The Dasha is somewhat supportive BUT marriage does not depend upon the Dasha as it a matter relating to the Kendra for which the Dasha hold no significance. The Gochar, on the other hand, has to be positive which I am sorry to say is not that much.
      With this small Yoga the possibility depletes. So it will be a task for you to get married. Let us appease Sun, to gain its blessing. Recite the Surya mantra daily 108 times, do Pranayaam and Surya Namaskar ( all 12 asanas).

  7. Guru ji pranam
    Name – Bineeta
    DOB – 02/10/1986
    Time- 7:10 p.m.
    place – sonebhadra , uttarpradesh

    guruji meri shaadi nhi lag rhi mei or mere ghar wali dono hi pareshan hai or abhi jab tak shaadi nhi ho rhi mai GOVT.job ki tyari kar rahi…..kripa kar k bataiye meri shaadi ka yog kab tak hai or mujhe kya karna chahiye or kya govt.job ka yog hai hai mera…plz guru ji kuch bataiye.

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