Thursday, November 14, 2019

A marriage needs 2 things essentially apart other paraphernalia i.e compatible spouse & proper time for marriage. The quest for marriage & search for compatible spouse begins to convert a house into home. Once a person settles in job, profession or business, this quest for marriage & locating suitable spouse intensifies. And why not as marriage is one of the most exciting event in the life of a normal human being. And getting a perfect spouse blesses the life for ever. However another fact here is in modern society, this simple thing is becoming more and more complicated. The days of male dominating society have gone.Women’s liberation, increasing effects of social media add to the aspirations that we look in “would be” spouse. We use best of our skills, contacts, social media sources. But still sometime there is inordinate delay in marriage as we don’t find a suitable spouse. People at this stage start blaming marriage Yoga & some even start feeling there is no marriage yoga in their Horoscope. My 2 decades practice of Indian Vedic Astrology reveals that in many cases, we are ourselves responsible for this delay in marriage. This happens because our own parameters or perception looking for spouse are too extraordinarily high. You would agree on this when you read further about the quite apparent reasons for this. But we realise the same after the time has lapsed. .

Known Reasons for not finding perfect spouse.

I am a witness to many stories where:

    1. Despite everything good, the perfect match is hard to get.
    1. No proposal comes despite everything excellent.
    1. There are parleys, negotiations, but they won’t proceed after a first few steps.
    1. The standards set for the spouse to be are way too high and not achievable.
  1. Sometime someone close to the native also plays the spoilsport in finding suitable spouse.

These are the few apparent reasons that restrict  someone’s search for perfect spouse & restricting Marriage.

Unknown reasons restricting marriage prospects 

But there are few others genuine reasons which are hard to understand. However, these reasons make the search for a perfect spouse a traumatic experience. This causes not only delay in marriage but in many cases, even block the chance of marriage. Some of  these are:

    1. Too much expectations & sticking to religion, cast, social status, financial status etc of the “would be” spouse.
    1. No trusting nature.
    1. Wanting too much without knowing what to give.
    1. The selfish personality.
    1. Being a critic or criticizing nature.
    1. Self-centric person.
    1. Inability to empathize.
    1. “The not so sure” personality.
    1. The over reactor ones.
  1. The loner.

How to refine search for “would be” Spouse.

Astrological reading of a horoscope has the potential to tell you many things about your “would be” spouse.  Now this is a tool which helps you to move in the right direction with correct prospective in mind looking for spouse. You can know as to spouse would come from :

    1. Marriage would be Love or arranged.
    1. Within or outside Country.
    1. Geographical idea with direction like  N E W S.
    1. Nearer or farther from your place.
    1. Professional background like in job, in business & like-wise.
    1. Social & economical background of the spouse & family.
  1. Nuclear or with larger family etc.

Now once we are in search of a spouse & someone guides us on the above parameters, am sure your search becomes refined. Furthermore it certainly  dilutes some factors on which either the aspirant self or the family is either over-ambitious or excessive protective. Let my long experience confirm here that sometimes these factor or factors  become ardent in search of a perfect spouse.

Horoscope readings for Finding perfect spouse.

During the analyzing sessions with those who couldn’t marry even after extraordinary efforts, I have come up with reasons as enumerated above that forbids the person from marrying. The horoscopic reason is a negatively afflicted Lagna and the tarnished Lagna Lord. However, there are very few who realize that they have been groomed up with this kind of disability and fewer are those who would work to correct out this deficiency in them.

My research work prompts me to look into the horoscope of those who couldn’t marry and figure out what is stopping them from achieving that fete. I have figured out many astrological reasons and the consequences they have in the native life. I will explain & reproduce the same as below.

The Du-Sthana from the house of marriage

The Du-Sthanas are the 6th house, the 8th house and the 12th house from the house they are seen. These houses try and restrict the growth of the house concerned. Now, the house of spouse and marriage is the 7th from Lagna, and the Du-Sthanas from this house are the 12th house, the 2nd house and the 6th house from Lagna. These houses work against the well being of the 7th house (about marriage and spouse) in question. If there is some planet placed in this house, it would further complicate the issue as in addition to that house and its lord, another planet has added in strength to trouble the native as regards to marriage.

For example, Sun in the 12th house points a finger toward the father or Job, which more often than not play a spoilsport in solemnizing the marriage of the native. It also reflects toward the self-fish personality of the native. And it becomes evident, as soon as the conversations for wedding begin.

The supporter of these Du-Sthana

YES! These Du-Sthanas can have ardent supporters which further cause delay in marriage or even deny the marriage. These supporters are the planets placed in Trines/ Trikona or Kendras to these Du-Sthanas. The Du-Sthanas draw strength out of these supporters and become fiercer in denying things.

For example: When the sun, deciphers in the 12th house, the father may be playing a spoilsport causing delay in marriage event of his child. Do not take it literally, it can be that he has set some standards which are becoming hard to fulfill. And from this sun in the 12th house say Saturn is placed in 3rd  house ( Kendra), or Rahu is placed in the 4th house  then this Sun is drawing considerable strength from these positions of Saturn or Rahu or any other planet that occupy the trine or the Kendra position from it (the Sun) which is negating the marriage.

The Karaka of marriage

Venus is the karaka or marriage whereas for a female horoscope there is an additional Karaka which is the Jupiter. If these karakas are ill-disposed in a horoscope in respect to the 7th house (for which they are the doer Karaka), there would be further delay in marriage  as any of the above factors which negate the finding of spouse gets activated:

So, it is not only the lord of 7th house or the 7th house which could jeopardize the chances of finding perfect spouse, the critical factors as discussed above can ruin the chances of marriage in such a fashion that the right partner always remains far from the sight.

Can Astrology help finding perfect Spouse 

There are treatments; a comprehensive analysis can make us conclude the loopholes which are negating the chances of even meeting a person for marriage let alone the actual marriage. Accurate astrology can easily find what are these factors & further how to improvise them. It is not that the standards that we set, are high but the rigidity is such that it makes us look no further. A complete analysis can help us evade the:

    1. Deceit if there is any.
    1. Can help us lower or correct the bar of financial status, the relocation tantrums, the caste, and sub-caste rigidity, etc. that we have set.
  1. Can prevent multiple rejections.

And further, realign the thought process so that the perfect match is not far away. Remember, do not complicate the already problematic Yogas of no-marriage in your horoscope, get assistance for a way out.

Another eye opener why marriages get delayed 

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Over 2 decades of my exposure of Vedic Astrology educates me to state that Vedic Astrology is all based on our Karmas. Firstly I very firmly believe that each horoscope has both malefic and benefic planets but none should either be distressed with negative Doshas or feel pampered with positive ones. We should know through our own karmas how to de-activate the negatives & activate the positive ones. And this is what the theory of Karma Corrections says.
Secondly, my focus is to read the flawed karmas of previous life and guide the person as to how can we improve them in our present life. And that is what my theory of Karma Correction is. I firmly believe that rituals cannot please the god. It can subside your problems but cannot eradicate. I also feel that heavy rituals are actually responsible that astrology seems to be losing its basic sheen in the modern times. Another thing is that if at all some remedies are required, should be totally Vedic, self performable rather we employing professionals to perform it for us. You have the problem so you should only devote time performing these rituals to connect with the divine power yourself.
I try to spread this concept of astrology through many other media channels like Hindustan Times, Times of India, Outlook India, Amar Ujala etc which can be read in Media & Press Section on my website OR on Quora as a preferred author OR read blog section on my website vinaybajrangi.com
I have mastered the various modes of ancient Vedic astrology and have picked up the uniqueness of all. I combine the following modes while decoding the future:
• Parashari Technique
• Brighu Technique
• Krishnamurthy Paddayti
• South Indian Nadi’s
• North Indian Astrological techniques.
• Vastu Shatra
I am also expert in the following fields:
• Birth time rectification
• Pre and Post marriage counsellor
• Chart matching for marriage
• Business issues
• Past life readings
• Career predictions, Subject selection for students
• Vastu Expert
With headquarters at Sector-66, Noida, U.P (India) I am a travelling Guru, often visiting cities in India and abroad to meet my clients.

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Over 2 decades of my exposure of Vedic Astrology educates me to state that Vedic Astrology is all based on our Karmas. Firstly I very firmly believe that each horoscope has both malefic and benefic planets but none should either be distressed with negative Doshas or feel pampered with positive ones. We should know through our own karmas how to de-activate the negatives & activate the positive ones. And this is what the theory of Karma Corrections says. Secondly, my focus is to read the flawed karmas of previous life and guide the person as to how can we improve them in our present life. And that is what my theory of Karma Correction is. I firmly believe that rituals cannot please the god. It can subside your problems but cannot eradicate. I also feel that heavy rituals are actually responsible that astrology seems to be losing its basic sheen in the modern times. Another thing is that if at all some remedies are required, should be totally Vedic, self performable rather we employing professionals to perform it for us. You have the problem so you should only devote time performing these rituals to connect with the divine power yourself. I try to spread this concept of astrology through many other media channels like Hindustan Times, Times of India, Outlook India, Amar Ujala etc which can be read in Media & Press Section on my website OR on Quora as a preferred author OR read blog section on my website vinaybajrangi.com I have mastered the various modes of ancient Vedic astrology and have picked up the uniqueness of all. I combine the following modes while decoding the future: • Parashari Technique • Brighu Technique • Krishnamurthy Paddayti • South Indian Nadi’s • North Indian Astrological techniques. • Vastu Shatra I am also expert in the following fields: • Birth time rectification • Pre and Post marriage counsellor • Chart matching for marriage • Business issues • Past life readings • Career predictions, Subject selection for students • Vastu Expert With headquarters at Sector-66, Noida, U.P (India) I am a travelling Guru, often visiting cities in India and abroad to meet my clients.

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Anjali pawar October 5, 2018 at 12:21 am

Guru Ji pranaam meri beti ki dob 5/10/94, tob 9:40 pm POB bijnor up h.mere beti me b.tech computer science se kia hua hai.mai janna chahti hu k uski job kis field me rhegi govt. Ya private.ya fir usko kis field mejama chahye jo usk liye acha ho aur uska future kaisa rhega overall.

    vinaybajrangi October 5, 2018 at 12:24 pm

    Govt Job Ki Sambhavna Bahut Kam Hai.

Anjali pawar October 6, 2018 at 1:54 am

Sir fir use kis field m pryas karna chahiye .any remedy or shaadi j kya yog hn uske father no hn or merit earning hand to mouth hi h plz help

jyoti0333 October 6, 2018 at 12:26 pm

Guru ji pranam..mai apni job ke bare me puchna chahti hu..guru ji April 2018 me marriage hone ke baad se mai Delhi me shift hou gai hu..tabse mere pas koi job Nahi hai..please aap Mujhe batayea ki Meri job kab tak lagegi?
Date of birth- 14 April,1993
Time- 2.04 p.m
Place- Haridwar (Uttarakhand)

SimmiAgrawal October 7, 2018 at 12:16 am

Hello sir,
My name is simmi agrawal.My birthdate is 02/10/1990.My birth time is 6:30 am.Sir meri shaadi kab hogi.Hogi b ya nai hogi.Koi b ladka dekho vo mana Kar de ya hamari taraf se Na ho jati h.muje ladka or parivar kesha milega.Muje ladka meri field ka milega.Meri shaadi b nai ho rahi or job b change nai ho rahi.Mere ghar me b bohot Ashanti hai.koi b kam me sirf asafalta milti h..Please aap meri problem ka solution dhe meri shaadi kab hogi or job kab change hogi.Me bohot pareshan ho gai ho.Please Guruji…

kailash October 7, 2018 at 6:10 pm

गुरूजी सादर प्रणाम ।
मेरा नाम कैलाश चन्द्र बुधलाकोटी है । मैं 32 साल का हूँ । मैं सरकारी नौकरी प्राप्ति हेतु प्रयासरत हूँ ।परन्तु अभी तक कहीं भी सफलता प्राप्त नहीं हुई ।क्या मुझे और समय इसके लिए लगाना चाहिए या आजीविका हेतु अन्य कुछ सोचना चाहिए ? कृपया मेरा मार्गदर्शन कर दीजिये । मैं आपका आभारी रहूँगा । मेरा जन्म समय की सही जानकारी नहीं हो पाने के कारण मैं अपने पुत्र की जन्म तिथि व विवरण भेज रहा हूँ ।
नाम – हार्दिक
दिनाँक – 20 नवंबर 2016
समय -1 बजकर 19 मिनट दिन में (13:19)
स्थान – हल्द्वानी
उत्तराखंड
उम्मीद और आशा करता हूँ कि आप अपनी ज्योतिष विद्वता से मुझ अकिंचन का भी उद्धार अवश्य करेंगे ।

    vinaybajrangi October 24, 2018 at 5:04 pm

    कैलाश जी अपने अपनी D.O.B सही नहीं हैं | .

mukul1975 October 17, 2018 at 3:24 pm

I am Mr. Debajyoti Adhya, a 43 years old unmarried MALE from Kolkata. Despite trying desperately for the last several years, I am unable to get married due to my poor health and low & unstable income. My question is : will I ever get married in THIS life-time ? If so, then WHEN ? My birth details : 26th September 1975 (Friday), at 9:14 PM (IST), in North Kolkata. Thank you !

    vinaybajrangi October 19, 2018 at 2:44 pm

    Mr. Debajyoti, The yoga to get married is very very weak. The Navamsha too does not support this Yoga. The Dasha is somewhat supportive BUT marriage does not depend upon the Dasha as it a matter relating to the Kendra for which the Dasha hold no significance. The Gochar, on the other hand, has to be positive which I am sorry to say is not that much.
    With this small Yoga the possibility depletes. So it will be a task for you to get married. Let us appease Sun, to gain its blessing. Recite the Surya mantra daily 108 times, do Pranayaam and Surya Namaskar ( all 12 asanas).

bineeta November 17, 2018 at 12:58 pm

Guru ji pranam
Name – Bineeta
DOB – 02/10/1986
Time- 7:10 p.m.
place – sonebhadra , uttarpradesh

guruji meri shaadi nhi lag rhi mei or mere ghar wali dono hi pareshan hai or abhi jab tak shaadi nhi ho rhi mai GOVT.job ki tyari kar rahi…..kripa kar k bataiye meri shaadi ka yog kab tak hai or mujhe kya karna chahiye or kya govt.job ka yog hai hai mera…plz guru ji kuch bataiye.

    vinaybajrangi December 24, 2018 at 3:36 pm

    Aap Shaadi ki tyayri karein 2019 mein hogi.

tanujbhargav December 18, 2018 at 10:27 am

guru ji i am the also astologer sir agr mere layak koi kam ho to btana this is my no 8852890906 and my website is

Astrolovelife.com

    vinaybajrangi December 18, 2018 at 11:11 am

    Thanks will revert if required.

Shobhakumari December 20, 2018 at 8:06 pm

Pranam pandiji
Name- Shobha kumari choudhary
DOB – 13th March 1983
Time-7.00 pm
Place-Buxar, bihar

Pandiji I have seen ur YouTube videos on delay in marriage so I thought of sharing my problems with u. Meri age Bahut ho gayi hai aur Meri shadi bhi kahi fix nahi ho pa Rahi hai .kya badhaye ya rukawate aa Rahi hai shadi me kuch Samajh nhi aa Raha. Kripya Aap Meri kundli dekh Kar bataye Meri shadi kab aur Kaise Hogi.sahi rashta bataye.
I will be really thankful to u for ur kind help.
Plz reply me as soon as possible

    vinaybajrangi December 24, 2018 at 3:21 pm

    replied as above .

Shobhakumari December 22, 2018 at 1:30 pm

Pranam pandiji
Name- Shobha kumari choudhary
DOB – 13th March 1983
Time-7.00 pm
Place-Buxar, bihar

Pandiji I have seen ur YouTube videos on delay in marriage so I thought of sharing my problems with u. Meri age Bahut ho gayi hai aur Meri shadi bhi kahi fix nahi ho pa Rahi hai .kya badhaye ya rukawate aa Rahi hai shadi me kuch Samajh nhi aa Raha. Kripya Aap Meri kundli dekh Kar bataye Meri shadi kab aur Kaise Hogi.sahi rashta bataye.
I will be really thankful to u for ur kind help.
Plz reply me as soon as possible

    vinaybajrangi December 24, 2018 at 3:21 pm

    The Karakas of marriage are negatively placed in your horoscope. They are preventing the marriage to happen. It not likely that you get married soon. Please observe the fasts for Thursdays.

Ruby January 10, 2019 at 4:27 pm

Guruji,Could you please analyse my chart to describe the planetary aspects on my love relationship and marriage sector?

DOB- 1991, 25th Jan
Time- 15:15 pm
Place:Kathmandu,Nepal

    Dr Vinay Bajrangi January 31, 2019 at 5:52 pm

    This is a very wide aspect you want me to cover. Please be specific in your question if you want me to answer that publicly.

bineeta February 7, 2019 at 8:50 am

Pranam guruji,,
Name – bineeta
Dob – 2/10/86
Time – 7: 10 p.m
Place -sonebhadra, uttar pradesh
Guruji maine apni shaadi k baare mai pucha tha apse kab hogi apne kaha tha tyari kariye 2019 mai hogi….guruji meri shaadi lagi thi roka or engagement ki date bhi fix hogyi thi…..abhi kuch din hi pahle tut bhi gyi shaadi….blkl chhoti wajah se….guruji mai kya karun…..us ladke se hi mai shaadi krna chahti hun…..guruji plz koi upay bataiye taki ye rishta firr se jud jaye.

    Dr Vinay Bajrangi March 13, 2019 at 6:25 pm

    Apko Guru Vidhi Krne Chaiye.
    https://www.vinaybajrangi.com/pages/how-to-perform-guru-vidhi.php

    Dr Vinay Bajrangi June 28, 2019 at 1:12 pm

    Iss tarah public platform par baar baar reply nahi kar sakte. Aap ladke ki birth details share karke online report ke liye register karen. Thanks

shtl March 25, 2019 at 12:02 pm

Hi

When will i meet my husband and get married

Dob:1 february 1982
Time:00:00(12 am)
Place : sharjah,uae

I have libra ascendent in lagna chart and my navamsa is saggitarius ascendent

Regards

    Dr Vinay Bajrangi April 17, 2019 at 1:07 pm

    There is strong ” anti-marriage Yoga” in your horoscope and it is now being fed by a negative transit of planets. Let both Shani and Guru start transiting the Makar Rashi, then there can be some hope.

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