Marriage astrology in Vedic Astrology has all the answers related to marriage when, how and married life afterward. Your search on the internet would find mostly blaming the different planets mainly Venus & Jupiter and different doshas like Mangal Dosh, Manglik Dosh, Nadi Dosh, No marriage Yoga etc for all marriage related issues. But do you know many times, we ourselves or our closest people are responsible for causing issues in pre-marriage and after marriage life of a person? My this write up is a little different explaining human factor and human errors causing concerns in pre and post marriage related issues. These are different & in addition to the reasons explained through horoscope and planetary positions. Though ultimately both these factors will finally supplement each other towards creating and resolving marriage related issues. This subject is so vast that it is not possible to explain all astrological aspects and my methodology in a single write up. Therefore I have given narration in a layman’s language with related techincal explainations in different blogs. One can select his / her area of concern & then see the detailed explainations accordingly.
All about marriage astrology and marriage predictions.
Marriage is not only the Union of 2 souls but also very significant for 2 existing families and then 2 future dynasties. Another factor is that with the graduated status of females in society, the overall perception of marriage has become totally different. The society is no longer a male-dominated society. Therefore my blog on Marriage Astrology is mainly related to reasons caused by human him/herself than only blaming planets in Horoscope & its planetary positions.
There are some common questions in many minds:
- When will I get married?
- How will be my life partner/spouse?
- Will I have a love marriage or arranged marriage?
- How will be my married life?
- What is my progeny?
- Will I have more than one marriage?
Can all get married:
My focus here is not to narrate the known & discussed reasons for delay in marriage. Marriages are made in Heaven and performed at earth is generally we hear. However, my point here is that to focus on factors like dynamics of society, changing levels of education, awareness through social media. Furthermore, another very important factor i.e evolution in female’s status in modern society has really changed the circumstances on the earth. So astrology also needs to co-relate the marriage related issues with such factors.
No Marriage Yoga is only a myth
Let me state there is nothing called no marriage yoga. In my opinion all should get married. There could be some planetary position showing no marriage Yoga and this we can take care by performing some small rituals. But yes, if there are some human factors leading to prove that there is no marriage Yoga, it becomes little more difficult to overcome these factors. This is because planetary positions are still (fixed) inactive once these decipher in the chart, these do not move. But if human factors become reasons leading to a no marriage yoga situation, these remain active & do not let the marriage happen. Don’t get surprised when the native him / herself cause reasons for this no marriage yoga or the closest ones even father, mother, siblings become the hurdle. Reasons could be different for delay in marriage but there is nothing like no-marriage Yoga.Now if this is your present concern click here to read more else proceed further.
Reasons for delay in marriage
The doers of marriage are the Venus and the Jupiter, one is the Guru of the demons, and the other is the Guru of the Gods. Both these Gurus must be suitably placed and should be supportive of each other so that the event of marriage takes place. Adverse placement of these two planets surely reduces the chances of marriage. However, these are curable. Let me explain both the sets of reasons planetary obstructions and human factors leading to delay in marriage. Now if this is your present concern click here to read more else proceed further.
Planetary combinations for delay in marriage
Different sages have given some classic combinations which negate or cause delay in marriage. Let me first count some important combinations out of these:
- The combination of Venus and Mars combine in the 5th, 7th and 9th house.
- Presence of Dhoom & Kaal in the seventh house.
- When Venus gets hemmed between bad planets. Or if there is a bad planet in the 4th or 8th or 12th from Venus..
- When bad planets like the Sun, Mars or Saturn occupy the 7th House. And any intrinsically bad planet aspects there, then there is a delay in marriage.
- Mars in the seventh house and aspected by an intrinsically bad planet devoid of the person of marriage.
- A weak seventh lord is positioned in the TrikBhav (6,8,12) then there can be a delay in marriage.
- Sun and Venus in the 5th,7th or 9th house also cause a delay in marriage. Or can devoid of the person of marital happiness.
- The combination of Venus and Mercury in the seventh house.
Now as explained above, above ten combinations are few which can delay the marriage of a person. Or in other words, can cause marital unrest.
Human & dynamic reasons for delay in marriage
Now this is most interesting part of this blog. And I can assure you that generally, you would not find mention of these reasons anywhere. On the planetary obstructions causing marriage related issues , we can still do some efforts & small help from rituals can balance out these placements. But we cannot easily combat the reasons with self -interest or wrong perceptions by human causing delay in marriage or other marriage related issues. And let me state here that these types of reasons are very difficult to combat as these are our self-creations. These reasons are becoming more & more prudent with changing dynamics of time. Now if this is your present concern click here to read more else proceed further.
Don’t blame only Manglik Dosh for the delay in marriage
I have experienced a large no of people blaming Mangal Dosh or Manglik Dosh for marital unrest. They blame this poor mangal dosh for all their marital unrest both before and after the marriage. But my experience of 2 decades allows me to say that 50% of such people are actually not Manglik at all. A deep study of Marriage Astrology ridicules that Manglik dosh is a major reason for the delay in marriage. So whenever anyone feels or is told that Mangal dosh is causing debacle in their marriage related matter, take an expert’s opinion whether you are really manglik also or NOT. It is easy but needs an expert’s hand to ascertain if you are Manglik. Now if this is your present concern click here to read more else proceed further.
Can a Manglik marry a non – Manglik?
This is again a well spread and contained myth. I very firmly believe that if at all you are a Manglik, you can marry a non-manglik. And this is not a random statement but has scientific base. My contention here is that we should try to match the Kundli of a Manglik with a Kundli which can counter balance the ills of Mangal Dosh. It is not at all essential that a Manglik should marry only another Manglik. To explain in simple words if you have a Mangal Dosh (say you are a Lame), you should not marry another Manglik (Lame). On the contrary you should look forward to a kundli which can counter balance your effects of being Manglik. I have explained it substantially that a Manglik can marry non – Manglik. Now if this is your present concern click here to read more else proceed further.
Marriage Astrology & matching of chart for marriage:
Kundli Milan or matching of charts for marriage simply doing Gun Milan is a gross & blunt error. This Gun Milan in Kundli Milan is possible through online marriage reports and there are “n” nos of stereotype software available in abundance. If the matching of charts for marriage is so simple, probably everyone can evaluate charts matching. In my opinion, Gun Milan is only a preliminary step towards matching charts for marriage. And I give only 10% weightage to Gun Milan while giving my recommendations for marriage either way. Actually, matching of charts for marriage should consider all factors of comprehensive marriage compatibility. All these tools are available in the true principles of Marriage Astrology. Now if this is your present concern click here to read more else proceed further.
I approve marriages even with 12/14 Gun matching out of 36 and sometimes even with 30/32 I disapprove OF the marriage. This becomes more relevant when we study the overall stature of females in modern society. Further, increasing aspirations of both spouses and more so the relationship of each other’s family. Reading about these comprehensive marriage compatibility factors is important not only for marriage aspirants but also for people who are facing issues in their post married life. Any issues in your married life, I am sure you would be able to co-relate it with one or the other factor is either missing or in conflict.
Progeny and marriage astrology
Proper matching of charts for marriage clearly indicates the progeny prospects. We marry not to enjoy our natural life but a very important factor in mind is to extend our families. Vedic astrology has vast explanations as to how and when you should plan your child. It also can reveal how would be your offsprings. What would be the impact of children on you and vice-versa? If there is a childlessness Yoga in any of the horoscopes? We can foresee all these factors and can surely take suitable pre-cautions at the right time. More insight on this can be read from my specific blog on this. Now if this is your present concern click here to read more else proceed further.
The final say on marriage astrology & its tools
So take full benefits of various tools of marriage astrology. Understand the right time when will you marry? Whom should you marry? How would be your married life? How would be your progeny? Reading all this never forget that sometimes we have some negative doshas in horoscope. But negative dosha may not always be harmful rather timely care with more of Karma Correction can even mould the results to your advantage. Here planetary transits help you greatly provided we know which transit will help you and when.