Chart matching for marriage is actually not only Gun Milan but is much beyond this. It needs comprehensive checking of marriage compatibility factors. My this blog about Kundali matching focuses primarily on Marriage compatibility factors (mind you not only Gun Milan). These factors have a very significant role pre & post marriage. And this has to be on a comprehensive basis, why ? You will realise reading further. Another reason for giving a detailed narration of chart Matching is to consider many new factors emerging out of the changed status of female in the society. This blog is not only for people who are marriage aspirant looking to get married. BUT also for people who are already married & are facing issues in their married life. gSometimes, we marry based on our intimacy, social circles, friendships, parent’s inclination, professional reasons or like that. In many such cases, we go for chart matching for marriage but not comprehensively. GENERALLY people go for normal / stereo type Gun Milan. And sometimes horoscopes are not matched at all. Later we start facing many issues of compatibility becoming so sour that we do not even hesitate resorting to mistrust or even menace like Divorce. One should understand the importance as to how these marriage compatibility in kundali matching play role in a happy married life than reading only for academic formalities. With this approach, I am sure this blog will help.
What is Marriage compatibility in chart matching for marriage?
What is marriage compatibility in chart matching for marriage? And why should we go for it? I shall start my narration with obeisance to Lord Hanuman ji. I will reveal few hidden secrets which will tell about Nakshatra Matching. We will further reveal why this Nakshatra Matching is way short of comprehensive Vedic way of kundali matching for marriage.
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The compatibility between couples takes a central role in ensuring a happy and joyous married life. In this era of frequent quarrels and more frequent separations and divorces the issue of matching charts cannot be let loose by just relying on the software of chart matching for marriage. But we should focus on the comprehensive matching of charts. This is mandatory to ensure a pleasant and satisfying married life. For those whose charts do not match in accordance with the analogy which will be put forth by me, nothing to despair about. Because I will explain a potent method which can really do wonders for pulling out a couple of marriage crisis. Now, the topic:
What is marriage compatibility in Astrology?
Marriage compatibility in chart matching for marriage is basically to match all traits of life between two person which decide their happy married life. It is much beyond Gun Milan etc. These factors of compatibility are enumerated below followed with detailed narration for each of these factors.
- The Nakshatra matching or Ashtakoot matching
- Planetary compatibility
- Bhav Compatibility
- Navamsha compatibility
- Sexual compatibility
- Financial compatibility
- Family compatibility
- Mental compatibility
- Mutual respect compatibility
- Submissiveness compatibility
- Kuja or Mangal compatibility
In comprehensive or poorna vedic Milan all these points are taken care of and what we get is a flawless relationship that has the intrinsic ability to survive.
I will explain the above points without getting too much astrological so that all those who follow astrology without even knowing its structure can make a sense out of it.
Lets us start, read it over and over again for better grasps of the subject:
Nakshatra, Ashtakoot compatibility in Kundali matching
This is generally known as Ashtakoot compatibility or the 36 Guna matching and the internet is full of software to evaluate this. But mind you of the fact, if Nakshatra is compatible, you have just cleared the first ten percent of comprehensive matching.
Nakshatra matching has 8 sub-points in chart Matching
Now understand what are these sub-points in kundali matching for marriageand how many points we give them.
- Varna Koot:- This indicates compatibility related to nature and workability. We give one point for this matching.
- Vashya Koot:- Indicates compatibility with respect to mutual relation and attraction. We give 2 points to this matching.
- Tara Koot: This is an indication of Mutual behavior and trust. We give 3 points when this is matching.
- Yoni Koot: This compatibility related to sex and bodily attraction. This matching gives us 4 points.
- Rashi Koot: This ensures mental compatibility in the Nakshatra way. We give 5 points when this is matching.
- Gana Koot: Lifestyle compatibility as per the Nakshatra is seen through this. This compatibility adds 6 points.
- Bhakoota: Mutual love compatibility through Nakshatra is seen through this. And this matching gets 7 points.
Nadi Koot: This is a measure of intrinsic energy and capability of progeny. And we give 8 points to this matching.
Normally people feel that 18 points or little more out of total 36 points are adequate for a Kundali matching for marriage. But this gives rise to flawed matching as Nakshatra matching has to be validated by the next parameter which is known as the planetary compatibility.
Planetary compatibility in chart Matching
The planets that play a significant role in deciding the fate of marriage are:
- Ascendant lord of both horoscopes
- Moon of both the horoscopes
- 7th house lord of both the horoscope
The horoscope of both the to be, partners are superimposed one over another to see the position of planets of both horoscopes with respect to each other. The positions like 6/8, 1/13, 2/12 are not considered favorable. Similarly, the combination of intrinsic bad planets in sensitive bhav is also not considered auspicious for marriage purposes. For example combination of Mars and Sun, or Sun and Rahu or Ketu or Saturn and Mars in the Bhav of the family (2,4,7,8 and 12) is not considered good. This way of kundali matching for marriage can be effectively done once the practicing astrologer has some practical experience. After satisfying that the planets have given their nod for marriage the next compatibility drawn is Bhav compatibility.
Those who have just relied on the Nakshatra Matching get complacent that the marriage kundali matching by date of birth has been done the 36 Gun matching evaluation done and there is a green signal for marriage. But this narration will tell them why Ashtakoot matching is not the only basis of chart matching.
Bhav compatibility in chart Matching
The bhav of both the horoscopes is now compared:
- The Lagna is the same for both, it gives harmony.
- If Lagna sign are trinal( 5/9) it gives friendliness
- Lagna sign is 1/7th to each other, it represents complementary.
- Rest combinations are not as good.
Once the bhav compatibility is seen, the next step is to gauge the strength of Navamsha or D-9 Match.
Navamsha compatibility in chart Matching
The planetary and Bhav compatibility as done in the Lagna or ascendant chart is repeated in the Navamsha chart. This compatibility verifies the soul matching of the partners to be. My experience says that this matching foretells about the continuity of these souls from the previous birth. It is importantly seen whether there is some connection from the previous birth or not.
Sexual Compatibility in chart Matching
Many marriage breaks as the partners are found not to be sexually compatible. This aspect can be seen from the birth chart but the avowal so obtained could be incorrect as the verification of this has to be carried out from the D-7 chart. It the D-7 charts give the green signal we can be sure that the marriage is not going to break because of this.
Financial Compatibility in chart Matching
In this era when both partners earn, a huge disparity in the amount of earning can bring down the satisfaction level between the partners. The less earning partner if is male, than things can be more drastically wrong. Apart from checking the Dhan Bhav, one has to also check the D-2 or the Hora chart to check this compatibility.
Family compatibility in kundali Matching
This is a very crucial factor, I have witnessed many marriage breaks because the interference of the family is too much in the domestic chores of the married couple, or one of the partners was just intolerant of another partner family. We check this from the D-1 chart but the correct prediction is seen through the d-24 charts.
Mental compatibility in chart Matching
An insane partner results in breaking of marriage. A thorough investigation of D-5 charts checks for this.
Mutual respect compatibility in chart Matching
No love can blossom if one does not respect the other. A heart devoided of love and respect cannot go long. This aspect has to be seen in the D-9 chart.
Submissiveness compatibility in chart Matching
A person ready to fight in all circumstances and not ready to relent or compromise can be a catalyst to speedily break the marriage. A thorough investigation of D-12 charts can determine this factor. We match this before going further.
Kuja or Mangal compatibility in chart Matching
This aspect is very crucial in the matching of charts for marriage. I suppose every astrologer does check the horoscope for this. Butt I have a strong apprehension about the expertise of most of the astrologers in dealing or matching Mangal or Kuja of one with another. A person who may not have this dosh may be living all this long with the impression that he or she is a Manglik. Very few natives are really Manglik or are under the influence of a potent Mangal/Mars and yet they may not necessarily search for another Manglik horoscope. It is rather simple to suppress the Mars effect of one horoscope with the other, a rational eye is all that is needed.
We can term kundali Matching for marriage as perfect only when it passes these 11 Tests.
The anxiety level of most of the readers must have multiplied while going through this article. As a result, there can be one very apparent question that if we apply this analogy in totality, most of the horoscope would not match. But this is not true as:
- There are many exceptions while doing this chart matching. Many horoscopes which apparently do not match do so when the exceptions are applied.
- A strong horoscope can cover many negatives of the weaker horoscope.
- The analogy has to be applied in tandem with the Dasha, sometimes Dasha makes over for the other negativities.
My final advise on compatibility factors in chart Matching
Wanting to marry which will decide the fate of 2 persons & more importantly 2 dynasties. It is a big lifetime decision so take out a few minutes for yourself but at the right time & right stage. Go for the right type of chart matching for marriage and avail all worldly benefits from this.
I sincerely hope that this narration on comprehensive matching for marriage has shown sufficient light on the 36 Gun matching or the Ashtakoot matching.
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