Friday, August 14, 2020

There is a very strong misconception that Manglik Dosh hinders the marriages, the most. Let me divulge that Mangal Dosh or the Manglik Dosh is not the only & always the reasons for marriage problems. Marriages can  run into rough waters & there are many factors responsible for it than only Manglik Dosh. One should try to peep deep into these reasons before we get scared or involve ourselves in Mangal Dosh Nivaran remedies & rituals. Marriage Astrology helps you to know exact reasons & then solutions also.

Is Manglik, Mangal Dosh always bad for marriage life?

The moment, we talk about Manglik, Mangal Dosh, the first reaction is Oh! there would be problem in marriage life. Means either there will be a delay in marriage or the married life will have issues. And being Manglik becomes a blot. This is more paiful for females. However, I, after many years of practical karmic astrology have identified many factor other than Manglik Dosh which cause unrest in marriage and married life. These factors become the actual reasons for marriage life. You read it and you will know these are quite practical reasons. And suprisingly, these factors have nothing to do with Manglik, Mangal dosh. Most of the same are as under:

    1. Affairs and infidelity,
    1. Sexual problems particularly a loss of libido.
    1. Significant differences in values and beliefs.
    1. Spouses outgrow each other.
    1. Traumatic or life-changing events.
    1. Work-related or long-term mental health issues causing prolonging periods of stress. .
    1. Jealousy.
    1. Family issues.
    1. Domestic violence.
    1. Lack of responsibility from one partner regarding finances.
    1. Unrealistic expectations
    1. Addictions
    1. Excessive indulgence in Social media.
    1. Lack of support particularly in difficult times.
    1. Manipulation or over-involvement in a relationship with family and friends.
    1. Lack of communication about important matters.
    1. Poor vision for the future.
  1. Lack of concern, care, and consideration

Anyone or a combination of above points are matters which can be responsible for issues in marriage life.  Astrology for Marriage can decode all these factors from the native’s horoscopes. However,  the sad part of horoscope matching is that  most of the astrologers seldom read & address these most important points. Rather they would only consider some commonly known factors for deciding on the marriage chart matching.

Commonly known factors of Marriage Matching or Kundli Matching

Those two points which attract the attention of most of the commoners along with their astrologers are:

    1. Kundli or Gun Milan
  1. Manglik Milan

My Research on Manglik – Mangal Dosh

Correct matching of horoscope was my subject which earned me one of my doctorates in astrology.  My research in “correct matching of horoscopes” drove me to many courts across India which dealt with divorce cases. The sampling of the divorce horoscopes proved few points that may surprise many:

    1. In almost 90% of the horoscopes, the Gun Milan was perfect;
  1. There was no Manglik Dosh or Manglik mismatch in most of the cases.

My research proved a point that the Manglik Dosh was not the pivotal Dosha which leads to Divorce in most of the cases and this is the premise of this article.

Why Manglik – Mangal Dosh is not always bad? 

A few do not go for horoscope matching at all.  And few others who go for horoscope matching are at most concerned about Manglik Dosh & focus on Manglik Match particularly. Astrology for Marriage describes all about Mangal (Mars) and its influence on marriage. Some main factors of the same are as follows:

    1. First of all, Mars is not the only negative planet in the horoscope. If it can influence someone’s character in any way then Saturn, Rahu, Ketu, and Sun can also influence with same or higher degree.
    1. The consideration of Manglik Dosh is very loose and has no bearing or mention in any of the classical astrological texts.
    1. It is the misconceived brainchild of present-day astrologers, to misguide.
    1. A negative Mars cannot be harmful to all the significations of twelve houses.
  1. There is a big question: Can a Manglik marry with Non – Manglik. Usually there is a  misconception that for a Manglik , you need another Manglik for a Kundli match. This fallacy has gained strength through an analogy that lame would marry a lame only. There is common belief that the person with a Manglik dosh should marry a person who herself or himself has a Manglik Dosh. Whereas the inherent meaning of matrimonial alliance is to have a person who compliments the other. One should understand the revelation of crux in these 2 statements  very very carefully.

Other planets disguising themselves as Mangal tend to delay or negate the marriage. People without proper knowledge do relentless remedies concerning Mars but never bother to understand what planet is to be appropriately addressed too.

Story with relevance

My office witnesses large volumes of horoscope for matching with the shift of every tactical planet from one sign to the other. However what troubles me the most is that , most of them come with a pre-occupied perception that the Mars is troubling them.

A couple visited my office for getting the horoscope of their daughter matched for marriage purposes. They had been carefully scrutinizing all those proposals that had come to them, and in the end, they had shortlisted five horoscopes and wanted to know which horoscope matched the most. Before I could start with my process they informed me that:

    1. Their daughter had a Ghor (fierce) Manglik Dosh, and they shortlisted all those who also , had Manglik Dosh.
    1. That there were a few other matches which were worth considering, but they left them out as they were non-Manglik
    1. That they have done much Upaays for the dreaded Mangal.
    1. They were informed that the potency of Mars faded by the time the native turns 28 and as their daughter had turned already turned 28, is that Mars still affecting her prospects of marriage.
  1. That their daughter was seeing a fellow working in her organization, but they had refused to him as he was not a Manglik.

Astrology for Marriage decodes this all

I started scanning all the six horoscopes,’ and my apprehensions that this couple too was misinformed proved correct as:

    1. All though Mars was positioned in their daughter’s eights house but was in Libra sign. This Mangal does not retard the longevity of the marriage and the husband to be. So I clarified that their perception that she had a Ghor Manglik Dosh was  misconceived.
    1. Out of five Boys in question, only two were Mangliks whereas the rest three again were non-Mangliks.
  1. The couple also had the horoscope of the boy who worked in the girl’s organization. This  horoscope did not have a Manglik Dosh but still  matched with their daughter perfectly.

They had spent a good one year, in shortlisting these five horoscopes and in the process they had rejected many horoscopes those as per them were non-Manglik, and the Astha-Koot Milan ( Gun-Milan) was low.

A little knowledge here proved far more dangerous than ignorance. This little knowledge ate upon the precious time, created a rift that shouldn’t have been and played with the emotions of the girl in question. In fact she had feelings of disgrace & depression that she had a Manglik Dosh & that too Ghor.

Final Outcome

The girl in question married at the age of 29 with the person whom she loved. This marriage could have taken place three years before, but the Planet Sun (father) and not Mangal played the spoilsport and delayed her marriage.  It is always better to consult a master than to wade the dagger in darkness.

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The Horoscope once allotted to us, cannot be changed. Not even the creator of it Lord Brahma can change it. Then how can astrology or astrologers help us? Let’s understand that Horoscope is a chart which is tabulated based on our Past Life Karmas. The karmas of past have gone past and are fixed, same way horoscope is fixed & none can be changed.
However with changing Planetary Transit and Dasha, we have flexibility in our present life karmas to impact the results of what is allotted to us in Horoscope. All planets (like Earth, Sun, Moon etc) keep moving which is called planetary transit. Dasha also keep changing. That is where a right astrological guidance by a competent astrologer plays the role. My practical experience of 20 Years with a PhD IN Astrology makes me write very categorically that each horoscope has both negative and positive planetary positions but actual results depend on how we drive them through our karmas of present life. Best of positive Yogas in Horoscope may not ignite for its expected positive results. Same way most negative Doshas in Horoscope can give best positive results. Important is Karma & not the so called astrology rituals. You cannot appease the God with rituals.
Indian Vedic astrology means co-relating your horoscope with your own karmas of past life, identifying flawed and good of them. Then guiding the person how to mould karmas in present life to win over impact of flawed ones.
Accurate birth time is the soul of Indian Vedic Astrology; any doubts pls go for birth time synchronization then only go for any astrological predictions. Career astrology, business astrology, marriage astrology, good progeny, negative doshas in horoscope, positive yogas in horoscope are all embedded in Vedic Astrology depending on astrologer what way want to deal with it.

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The Horoscope once allotted to us, cannot be changed. Not even the creator of it Lord Brahma can change it. Then how can astrology or astrologers help us? Let’s understand that Horoscope is a chart which is tabulated based on our Past Life Karmas. The karmas of past have gone past and are fixed, same way horoscope is fixed & none can be changed. However with changing Planetary Transit and Dasha, we have flexibility in our present life karmas to impact the results of what is allotted to us in Horoscope. All planets (like Earth, Sun, Moon etc) keep moving which is called planetary transit. Dasha also keep changing. That is where a right astrological guidance by a competent astrologer plays the role. My practical experience of 20 Years with a PhD IN Astrology makes me write very categorically that each horoscope has both negative and positive planetary positions but actual results depend on how we drive them through our karmas of present life. Best of positive Yogas in Horoscope may not ignite for its expected positive results. Same way most negative Doshas in Horoscope can give best positive results. Important is Karma & not the so called astrology rituals. You cannot appease the God with rituals. Indian Vedic astrology means co-relating your horoscope with your own karmas of past life, identifying flawed and good of them. Then guiding the person how to mould karmas in present life to win over impact of flawed ones. Accurate birth time is the soul of Indian Vedic Astrology; any doubts pls go for birth time synchronization then only go for any astrological predictions. Career astrology, business astrology, marriage astrology, good progeny, negative doshas in horoscope, positive yogas in horoscope are all embedded in Vedic Astrology depending on astrologer what way want to deal with it.

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