Delay In Marriage Dynamic Reasons-Dr. Vinay Bajrangi.

Delay In Marriage Dynamic Reasons-Dr. Vinay Bajrangi.

EVERYBODY CAN GET MARRIED.

Delay in marriage is a very common problem these days. My focus here is not to narrate the known & discussed reasons for delay in marriage.  But I will reveal many unknown OR little known factors which can & do attribute to delay in marriage. Dynamics of society, changing levels of education, awareness are some factors which as it is, are adding to this problem. Evolution in female’s status in the modern society becomes another dominant reason of delay in marriage. These are the factors which can delay the marriage of any commoner & can be applicable to any  of us circumstantially. .

However, I will explain how, sometimes our closest ones can become reasons for delay in marriage. What is there in their charts which causes delay in Marriage & what planetary positions can influence a Marriage Yoga.  The planets which strengthen the Marriage Yoga &  promise the Marriage are the two Karakas (doers). The Venus and the Jupiter, and the Lord of seventh house. Wrong infliction of these 2 planets spoil the Marriage Yoga & finally lead to delay in marriage.

Essentials for Marriage Yoga.

The doers of marriage are the Venus and the Jupiter, one is the Guru of the demons, and the other is the Guru of the Gods. Both these Gurus must be suitably placed and should be supportive of each other so that the event of marriage takes place.

Factors leading to delay in marriage or weaken Marriage Yoga

There are a few classic combinations propagated by different sages which negate OR influence Marriage Yoga of an individual. This leads not only to Delay in Marriage but also develops a sense of depression that I can not marry.  The most important of these combinations are:

  1. When Venus and Mars combine in the 5th, 7th and 9th house , the person does not marry.
  2. If the Lagna, seventh house and the twelfth house has intrinsically bad planets and a weak moon is in the fifth house, the person does not marry, or the wife is infertile.
  3. Presence of Dhoom in the seventh house, the person does not marry, and positioning of  Kaal in the seventh house makes a person wifeless.
  4. Venus getting hemmed between bad planets or if there is a bad planet in the 4th or 8th or 12th from Venus, then there is a denial of marriage.
  5. When the seventh house is housed by bad planets like the Sun, Mars or Saturn and is further aspected by an intrinsically bad planet, then there is No Yoga of Marriage.
  6. Mars in the seventh house and aspected by an intrinsically bad planet devoid the person of marriage.
  7. A weak seventh lord is positioned in the TrikBhav (6,8,12) then one may not marry.
  8. The seventh house has a weak moon, the seventh lord in the 12th house the karakas are also ill placed then there is No Yoga of Marriage.
  9. Sun and Venus in the 5th,7th or 9th house devoid of the person of marital happiness.
  10. A combination of Venus and Mercury in the seventh house devoid the person of marriage.

Impact of planetary position on Marriage Yoga 

The above ten combinations are few of the important combinations which can negate the marriage of a person. Or cause delay in marriage. These combinations are nothing but traits an individual develops which becomes responsible for coming in the way of not finding the right match at the right time. Every individual dreams of a picture of would be the spouse. But the problem arises when rigidity, prejudice, ego and superiority or inferiority complex takes over the intelligence of the native or family members involved. All these factors lead to delay in marriage.

What causes delay in marriage or spoil a Marriage Yoga

Let me explain how these no-marriage yoga gets fructified:

The native, himself/herself, becomes responsible: 

There are numerous instances when the native himself/herself sets some guidelines for marriage alliances. Now, this can be any one or a combination of qualification, employment, family structure, looks, assessed temperament, place of work, responsibility, actions, and dalliance. These guidelines are sometimes so strict that the native does not think beyond, resulting in not solemnizing the marriage at all. The planet to blames is a faulty Lagnesh with a distressed karaka of marriage.

The Mother of the native becomes responsible:

A mother goes through many things including miseries in her whole life in different roles & stages. She becomes very protective when it comes to the marriage of her children. Her whole hearten wish remains that her children do not go through such things specially the miseries.  Somethings this protective attitude becomes so compelling that she rejects perfect suitable matches also on the flimsy whim, perception and fancies. These mothers become instrumental is negating the Marriage Yoga of their ward causing Delay in Marriage. Astrologically the moon’s position in Navamsh indicates as to how the mother would void the marriage prospects of her kid.

The Father of the native becomes responsible:

The position of Sun (father) in the Navamsh makes a father responsible for delay in marriage. There can be a situation where the father is prejudice of something or maintains a nasty and non-respective nature. A superiority complex can also ride high on him. These are the few reasons ( though could be inadvertently) making the father acting as a spoilsport in fortification of  Marriage Yoga.

Other family members/relative become responsible:

There are chances that a series of backbiter who would not let even the dialogue of marriage take shape. These can be siblings who would not want their brother/sister to marry at all for their benefits. Many times, elders also turn a blind eye towards their responsibilities.

A competent astrologer can identify all these factors & point out the persons in specific who can cause delay in marriage. In such cases even a horoscope with proper Marriage Yoga turns towards a hopeless situation. A timely insight into such factors, of course by a master, can make many to reap the fruits of Marriage Yoga & that too in time.

A story with relevance

A few years ago, a female 42 years, visited me to examine her chart and suggest ways to get her married. Reading her Horoscope & talking to her made me derive some inferences. Most important of these are enumerated as below.

  1. She was apprehensive that there was no Marriage Yoga in her horoscope..
  2. For this as advised , she had undertaken several rituals but all in vain.
  3. Her qualifications were quite high & she was working with an MNC.
  4. On the personality, she was smart and had average looks.
  5. Her nature was submissive.
  6. She came to me with her younger brother and mother.

I saw her horoscope with all the relevant charts and announced that the marriage was indeed possible but for that, she had to revisit me after some time. I could see the perplexed looks her mother had to offer after listening to what I said.

After a few more revelations about her career, they left my chamber. As they went, I told my assistant to give them the next date for an audience. However I also said that the girl should try to meet me with some one other than the mother & brother, who were already playing spoil spot. I knew who was responsible  leading to delay in marriage or to diminishing Marriage Yoga.

Hidden but true reasons for delay in marriage

The reason for this was:

  1. The mother apparently was very keen on her marriage.  But she was highly repulsive of the idea that her daughter moves out of the town after the marriage.
  2. The mother did not want her daughter to move out of their home even.
  3. The brother of the girl in question was too dependent financially on his sister and was practically doing nothing. But he also made sure that the girl was under his command.
  4. The father of the girl was also not financially stable and was under the command of his wife and son.

The role & impact of Sun (father), Moon(mother) and Mars(brother) was clearly seen as factors causing delay in her marriage. As her employment was gaining strength so was the Yoga of no-marriage. The mother of the girl subconsciously wanted her daughter not to go away as she was not only the breadwinner but also was giving them material comfort. The affection of the mother was for her son, and she was using her daughter to make her son an undeserved beneficiary.

No Marriage

How astrology helps overcoming reasons for delay in marriage

The next time the girl visited me, I asked her to change her city of work, which was evident from her horoscope. I also cautioned her not to succumb under undue pressure and move to another city without the crutches of family. I also asked her to restrict the monetary support to the family, take care of the food, that to basis, give nothing to brother.

It took some guts from her, but she did I had prescribed her. She migrated down south where she became more liberal and freer in deciding for herself.

She followed my advice to shift her work place to another city & got married within one year of it.

There are harmful Yogas but then there are ways also to deactivate the same. One should know what changes one needs to do within own self to deactivate these Yogas . One thing is for sure that if we do not modify our Karmas,

praying and appeasing the almighty shall not bear any fruit.

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24 thoughts on “Delay In Marriage Dynamic Reasons-Dr. Vinay Bajrangi.”

  1. Shivani agrawal 6/12/83 time 6.40pm chhatarpur madhya Pradesh ..i have been married for six years but facing childlessness .do i have child line in my kundli

    • As informed you on the Live FB Show Your problem is of childlessness even after 6 years of marriage. For progeny related queries, I need birth details of the couple but I don’t have the birth details of your husband. Still since you asked me, I based on your birth chart 6.12.1983, Time 06.40pm, Chatterpur, MP, I can tell you that birth chart is nice for progeny purpose. Though the D7 Chart in your HS is a bit problematic but 5th House of D1 Chart is nicely placed so good for progeny. I could have told you some remedies for this problem but without the birth details of your husband, I would not like to. This is because, may be the birth chart of your husband is more indifferent / problematic for this issue.

  2. Pranaam Guruji

    I REALLY APPRECIATE AND ADMIRE YOUR UNCONVENTIONAL APPROACH OF ANALYSING A HOROSCOPE THROUGH KARMA CORRECTION.
    GURUJI WOULD YOU PLEASE LOOK INTO MY BIRTH CHART AND SUGGEST WHAT KARMA KORRECTION (BEHAVIOURAL AND ATTITUDINAL CHANGES) DO I NEED TO UNDERTAKE IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE GREAT HEIGHTS/SUCCESS.
    BASICALLY I WANT TO KNOW MY STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES.

    I WOULD BE REALLY GRATEFUL IF YOU PUT IN THE EFFORT AND IMPART YOUR INVALUABLE GUIDANCE.

    MY DETAILS ARE:
    19/05/1990
    07:20AM
    CUTTACK,ODISHA.

    THANK YOU

    • Hello Ankit Your birth details recd by me are 19.05.1990. 07.20 am, place Cuttak Orissa. You write quite well but seems this quality lacking while it comes when you speak. Though you have the capabilities but due to “low stock” ( short temper natured) you are not able to hold your words. Ketu in 2nd house with further debilitated position with other planets cause all this. Ketu in 2nd house further affects funds depletion & family expansion too. Situation or persons against you can overcome you. It could be even a question coming in exam can diminish your calibre. Do karma correction foremost, control your temperament & do the Ketu Upays as suggested. Your Isth devta is Ganeshji, pray him if not doing already. Do things comprehensively which I find missing at present.

  3. Pranam guru ji ,mera naam Jyoti hai aur mai apne husband k carrier aur financial situation se related question puchna chahti hu..
    Name – Deepak
    Date of birth – 3rd December night ( 4th December) , 1989
    Time – 2.25 a.m
    Place – Haldwani ( Uttarakhand)
    Guru ji , humari shadi isi saal 19th April ko hui hai…mere husband 2012 se 2017 tak property dealing ka business krte the Delhi me , last year October me unhone ” International tourist hostel” open Kia Delhi me he..ye naya business unka thik Thak chalra tha…unhone iss business ko badane ke liye bank se loan Lia hai july me..iss time par humari financial condition jyda thik Nahi hai..mere husband jyda acha earn ke liye next year Canada Jane ki bhi planning karre hai….Please guru ji , aap btayea ki unhe Canada Jane ki planning Karni chahyea ya Nahi?? Aur hum apni financial situation thik kaise kar sakte hai??Please help

    • Jyoti ji Jaisa ki maine FB ke live show me bataya ki apke pati ki kundali me business ka yog madhyam hai aur videsh gaman ka yog bhi balishth nahin hai. Aapke pati ki kundali dhan vyay karne ( money waste) vali kundali hai arthat vo ( apke pati) jitna kamayenge utna hi gavan denge. 2024 se pahle aapke pati ka videsh jana bahut kashtkaari hoga. Aap apne pati se kahiye pratidin Ganesh bhagvan ki pooja Karen aur yadi sambhav ho to gale me 2 panch mukhi rudraksha dharan Karen, labhdayi hoga.

  4. Pranam guru ji,
    Mera naam Shubham hai mai apne sister ki marriage k bare mai jaana chahata hu. Unki shadi kb hoge or ladka kaisa hoga service wala hoga ya, business krne wala.

    Name- Manisha
    DOB- 8-Dec-1996
    Time- between 12 am to 1 am
    Place – Bihar

    • Shubham ji Jaisa ki maine FB ke live show me bataya ki Apki behan ka janm samay sateek ( accurate) nahin hone ke karan mein aapki bahan ki kundali ke bare me vistaar se nahin bta sakta . Aap kisii kushal jyotishi se ya phir Bajrangi Dhaam aakar unka janm smay sanshodhit ( rectify) karaiyen.

  5. Pranam guru ji,
    Mera naam komal mai apne career k bare mai jaana chahate hu. Maine post graduation keya hua hai. mera career kaise rhega or kya govt. job lg skte hai. please aap muje bateye.
    DOB- 9-sep-1993
    Time- 5:45 pm
    Place- Merrut.

    • Komal ji Jaisa ki maine FB ke live show me bataya ki apka lagn kumbh hai . Aapki kundali me Surya bahut achchhi sthiti me nahin hai . Apko result der se milega, kyonki yeh apni shatru rashi ke andar hai aur Rahu se uljha hua hai . Aapki sarkari naukri 2019 ke bad lagne ki sambhavna hai . Apne prayson ( efforts) ko jaari rakhiye aur apne gyan ko aur vistrit kiijiye.

  6. प्रणाम गुरु जी
    मेरा नाम रिशु हैं मै अपने बहन कि शादी के बारे मै जानना चाहती हूँ| उनकी शादी कब तक होगी और उनका घर परिवार कैसा होगा |
    DOB- 12-jan-1992
    Place- Bulandshahr (U.P)
    Time- 1:15 pm

    • शादी में समस्या है , कारक शुक्र पीड़ित है, विलम्ब सूचित करता है |

  7. Pranaam Gurudev,
    13/2/1982 18:50, Khatima…when the job will change , trying since 5 years and which gemstone is recommended,I tried with coral,Ruby,pukhraj but no benefits.. When is the time to travel for onsite.?

  8. Pranaam Gurudev,
    Below are my details:
    13/2/1982 18:50, Khatima…when the job will change , trying since 5 years and which gemstone is recommended,I tried with coral,Ruby,pukhraj but no benefits.. When is the time to travel for onsite.?
    What all things I can do to take benefits of Mercury antardasha.

  9. Sir, maine comment kia tha!
    But mera comment yaha show nai ho raha!

    • Dobara try kijiye verna office mein 9999113366 par Deepanshi ji se help lejiye.

  10. Sir
    Mai 8-10 Salo se berojgaar hu . Maine b.sc. ,ma(history) kiya hai. Govt job Mili Nahi. Mai Ab kis Taraf Prayas karu ,

    • Birth date, time & place to batayen.

  11. Dob- 17 Dec 1992
    Time-7 Pm
    Place- kanpur

    Sir .
    Mai Kis Field me Safal ho paunga.
    Career Kab Seetle hoga.help

  12. Ok birth details mil gaya hai.

  13. Pranam Guruji, I hav a ques regarding my marriage, wud my marriage ever take place nd tell me about my spouse married life.My details 16:06:78. 22:15.
    Ranchi
    I req guruji plz plz. do reply
    Thankyou

    • The chances are very less. Even if the marriage takes place, the chances of its survival are less.
      There is this yoga of marriage in 2019 June to December. You can take advantage of it. please, do the Guru Vidhi ritual.

  14. Pranam Guruji,
    I hav a ques about my brother.when will he get a job nd his marriage take place,his details r 27/09/1975. 14:06 aurangabad(bihar).please guide us.

    • I think your actual name is Neetu Singh then can I know why did you ask as Neelam Sinha. Any specific reasons for it. Reg your brother , let him register from his ID , will see what best can be replied.

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