Friday, October 23, 2020

No marriage Yoga or charts negating marriage can upset any marriage aspirant & the family. But nothing to worry, I have seen  many such horoscopes & cases where the same have been  converted into Good Marriage Yoga. I will explain it with a all astrological aspects of this with a story of relevant facts.

Why I am not getting married? Is there a No Marriage Yoga in my horoscope?

Many a times when there is a delay in marriage, people start attributing it to No Marriage Yoga. But in most of the cases, the facts are different. I am explaining it with a live example.

It was 16th of February,2016 when a confident a young female, Yogita (Name changed) walked into my office at 11:10 AM. Why am I mentioning these dates and time with confidence? Well! All the times and dates since one has rung my office are noted down by my supportive staff, as the charts cast out by these times and dates too, give an insight to the problem the native has and also has something to do with its eradication.

Coming back to Yogita, she had already turned 34, and still, there was no sight of her marriage. She had met many astrologers & had performed many known rituals also but still no success. Had a perception that there was no marriage yoga in her horoscope and had virtually lost all hopes that  she would ever get married.  Therefore her apparent & only question to me was “Sir, would I ever get married also or not. 

I drawn her chart which were looking  something like as below:

Chart negating Marriage

This chart was negating marriage. It was giving an impression of a horrendous marriage even if it happened that too at a later stage. She knew about most of these negative forces causing hindrances in the marriage & indicating a no marriage yoga in her life. And as a result,  she had performed many rituals but did not get any concrete results.  Therefore she needed a different treatment altogether.

My methods to analyse such issues

I have a habit of maintaining a data bank of all the landmark cases and also of the cases those I see and solve. This helps me in understanding the circumstances further and formulating my dictums by correlating the life events with the other similar charts. Problems, regions, and era segregate my data bank of horoscopes. This horoscope of Yogita was strikingly similar to the horoscope of Malti (name changed), a 1965 born chronic bachelor who had consulted me in the year 2012 for some matter relating to her profession. She was also settled that there is no marriage yoga in her horoscope. For her, marriage was a dream and for which she had stopped bothering for at least last ten years.

My insight on the issue

No marriage yoga

I was quick to presume that the fate of marriage for Yogita can be similar to that of Malti. It was because the stars promising marriage were almost the same in both the charts. And also, the Yoga they formed was hard to crack and for a novice, it was a sign of no marriage yoga.

But the chart of Yogita had a plus point, her ascendant lord in both the Lagna (D-1) and Navamsha chart (D-9) was strong and influenced by Jupiter. This would mean that the rituals that one would prescribe to her will be done religiously and with utmost care. But she had done enough of them and the gain by doing them was not there. Therefore, before prescribing her the rituals that were to be done, the areas of concerns as per her chart were evaluated and are enumerated below. I will not mention here what planet is causing what effect, as I leave it to the reader to understand that what has created which. You guys are free to leave your comment in the comment box. I assure you I will answer all of them..

Some obstructing factors here

Every mom and father have a specific influence on their child. But there are instances when sometime this influence goes beyond a certain point causing indefinite delay in marriage . As a result, some events are too spoiled & hard to mend at a later date. You can very well see that the Moon which is the karaka of the mother is negatively positioned concerning the 7th house and the 7th house Lord and similarly the positioning of the sun is not as it should be with the significations of the 7th house.

The girl Yogita was a well-qualified person doing well in her professional life. She wanted a spouse who should be better placed than her. She also wanted the spouse from the locality where she was working herself.

The younger brother to Yogita did nothing to find a good match for her. He would prefer to say only when she herself  narrowed down on one.

An over caring family  kept causing delay in marriage & gradually ruined any prospects of marriage.

Now a more in-depth study of the chart of Yogita:

The planets are causing delay in marriage or say negating the marriage.

How these marriage negating planets gained strength virtually reflecting a No Marriage Yoga for her. Because they are fed by Moon (Mother), Sun (Father) and Mars (Brother).

If these fellows do not try to over help, the negating planets causing delay in marriage would not have gained that much strength. As a result, the wedding would have happened in time.

The next question would be: would the marriage survive, and the answer to this riddle is, yes! Very much because the onus to get the union moving in not on just one shoulder but on both the spouse so that a well-matched chart would have saved the marriage.

Easy Solutions & advise for no marriage yoga

Now, what I prescribed to Yogita to avoid further delay in marriage.And more so to ridicule her perception that there was any no marriage yoga in horoscope.

To gain some strength and search for a groom for herself and not to bother to find him in the same town.

Do not indulge his brother in marriage negotiations at all; it is none of his business.

Just apprise her parents what she was doing, do not indulge them as they will further ruin any possibility.

Advised them for proper matching of  the charts before initiating any further talks.

I further advised that she is  not a dollar minting machine which should be working only for others.

Also asked her to pray to Lord Vishnu is a specific way, He would grant her the required strength.

Further more suggested her some specific spans of time where should be more attentive. Because during that time, transiting stars would favour better to find the suitable prospect.

It was hard for her, but I knew that she would manage, (remember the time/date she entered my office).

The Final Outcome – Nothing called No Marriage Yoga 

The Final Outcome

Yogita  got married. Both husband & wife work in different places, but still they have a more contented life. The mom and dad are still a nagging factor as for them she has married against their will.

The brother is now always mad at her as he has lost easy access to her money. But pregnant she is and hopeful for a lovely life ahead, which she will have.

As far as Malti is concerned, she too married after such a delay in marriage once she lost her mother. However, surely she lost on time. The brother of Malti could never get on his feet. Because he had easy access to her money for a bit too long which probably he lost now .

The planets are there to tell and caution, but, blindly we follow and fall into their trap. The most difficult of the charts are those in which the native does not tend to learn. Here also the curse of no marriage yoga would have played a spoilsport, if she had not understood the actual reasons. There is no yoga known as no marriage yoga. 

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The Horoscope once allotted to us, cannot be changed. Not even the creator of it Lord Brahma can change it. Then how can astrology or astrologers help us? Let’s understand that Horoscope is a chart which is tabulated based on our Past Life Karmas. The karmas of past have gone past and are fixed, same way horoscope is fixed & none can be changed.
However with changing Planetary Transit and Dasha, we have flexibility in our present life karmas to impact the results of what is allotted to us in Horoscope. All planets (like Earth, Sun, Moon etc) keep moving which is called planetary transit. Dasha also keep changing. That is where a right astrological guidance by a competent astrologer plays the role. My practical experience of 20 Years with a PhD IN Astrology makes me write very categorically that each horoscope has both negative and positive planetary positions but actual results depend on how we drive them through our karmas of present life. Best of positive Yogas in Horoscope may not ignite for its expected positive results. Same way most negative Doshas in Horoscope can give best positive results. Important is Karma & not the so called astrology rituals. You cannot appease the God with rituals.
Indian Vedic astrology means co-relating your horoscope with your own karmas of past life, identifying flawed and good of them. Then guiding the person how to mould karmas in present life to win over impact of flawed ones.
Accurate birth time is the soul of Indian Vedic Astrology; any doubts pls go for birth time synchronization then only go for any astrological predictions. Career astrology, business astrology, marriage astrology, good progeny, negative doshas in horoscope, positive yogas in horoscope are all embedded in Vedic Astrology depending on astrologer what way want to deal with it.

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The Horoscope once allotted to us, cannot be changed. Not even the creator of it Lord Brahma can change it. Then how can astrology or astrologers help us? Let’s understand that Horoscope is a chart which is tabulated based on our Past Life Karmas. The karmas of past have gone past and are fixed, same way horoscope is fixed & none can be changed. However with changing Planetary Transit and Dasha, we have flexibility in our present life karmas to impact the results of what is allotted to us in Horoscope. All planets (like Earth, Sun, Moon etc) keep moving which is called planetary transit. Dasha also keep changing. That is where a right astrological guidance by a competent astrologer plays the role. My practical experience of 20 Years with a PhD IN Astrology makes me write very categorically that each horoscope has both negative and positive planetary positions but actual results depend on how we drive them through our karmas of present life. Best of positive Yogas in Horoscope may not ignite for its expected positive results. Same way most negative Doshas in Horoscope can give best positive results. Important is Karma & not the so called astrology rituals. You cannot appease the God with rituals. Indian Vedic astrology means co-relating your horoscope with your own karmas of past life, identifying flawed and good of them. Then guiding the person how to mould karmas in present life to win over impact of flawed ones. Accurate birth time is the soul of Indian Vedic Astrology; any doubts pls go for birth time synchronization then only go for any astrological predictions. Career astrology, business astrology, marriage astrology, good progeny, negative doshas in horoscope, positive yogas in horoscope are all embedded in Vedic Astrology depending on astrologer what way want to deal with it.

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12 Comments

Shafali August 29, 2018 at 4:40 am

Guruji,
Maine pahle b apna question post kia hai but aap time constraint ki vajah se online session me nai le paae the mera question.
Isliye vapas se post kar raahi hu.

Mai ek ladke se shadi karna chati hu, but hamari kundali nai mil raahi.
Bass itna jaana hai ki risk of life ya health problems to nai aaegi hamari shadi me?

Girl’s name: Shafali Jain
DOB: 01/01/1993
Time: 5:30 pm
Place: Ghaziabad

Boy’s Name: Harshit Goel
DOB: 27/5/1993
Time: 2:30 AM
Place: Ghaziabad

Prakash October 30, 2018 at 10:21 am

प्रणाम गुरु जी

गुरु जी जिन पंडित जी ने मेरी कुंडली बनायीं उन्होंने मेरी कुंडली को देख कर कहा की गृह अच्छे हैं मजबूत है पर जब विवाह की आयु होने पर भी अच्छी वधु मिलने में विलम्भ हुआ और मेरी माता जी ने दूसरे पंडित जी को मेरी कुंडली दिखाई तो वो बोले की लड़के के गृह कमजोर हैं जब यह बात मेरे पिता जी ने हमारे पंडित जी को बताई तो उन्होंने कहा में लिखकर देता हूँ की लड़के के गृह कमजोर नहीं है . अब समस्या यह है की में अभी Ph.D कर रहा हूँ पर मेरी कुंडली कहीं तो मिलती हे नहीं अगर मिलती भी है तो वहां कुछ न कुछ परेशानी आ जाती है . कृपया बताये की क्या मेरी कुंडली में शादी का योग है . और दुशरा की क्या मेरे गृह कमजोर है भविष्य (कार्यछेत्र , विवाह , संतान ) आदि के लिए l
Name: Prakash
DOB: 04/07/1987
Time: 5:45 AM
Place: Tanakpur Uttarakhand

धन्यवाद

    vinaybajrangi December 24, 2018 at 3:42 pm

    इतने लोगों को दिखाने के बाद भी शायद यह समझ नहीं पाए कि जब संशय हो और कुछ राह नहीं निकलती हो तो किसी अनुभवी को दिखाना चाहिए न कि इधर उधर पूछते रहना चाहिए| इन मंचो पर भी बहुत बारीकी से कुंडली की जांच नहीं होती है और जब मामला गंभीर हो तो स्वं मिलना जरूरी होता है | ऐसे ही पूछते रहेंगे तो कोई कुछ बतलायेगा और कोई और कुछ | कहीं इस पूछ ताछ में उम्र न निकल जाए |

Nishant December 27, 2018 at 9:51 pm

Namaste Sir,
My birth details are as
DOB-24th March 1988,
Time-23:15
Place-Patna, Bihar

Sir, I have family problems. There is constant fighting and bickerings in my house as I have seen from my childhood. This is due to my Aunty who keeps a abusing & fighting with whole family since early 90’s (I think from 1992 onwards). Now I have grown but the situation is still the same and have become worse. After seeing all this, I am confused if I should marry at all or not. I have studies some basics of astrology and have pointed out that I must not marry at all. I am not saying this based on astrology only. As a human, I think that I have no rights to marry someone and bring her in such a painful environment. It would be cheat with the girl if I marry her in such situations. I don’t see any scope to even change my house as I belong to a middle class family. So, kindly tell me if I could be married or not? Please…..
Thank you in advance

gulabsingh March 27, 2019 at 12:29 pm

Please guide wrt these particulars:

Date of Birth: October 27,1978

Time: 00:40 AM Mid night
Place: Chandigarh

Still unmarried . Would marriage ever materialise in this life or not

    Dr Vinay Bajrangi April 17, 2019 at 1:05 pm

    No, it is very hard. Even if marriage happens it will break.

skaswani7 March 29, 2019 at 3:25 pm

Query- I got married in Feb 2018, but my marriage didn’t last even 1 month, the girl didn’t wanted to marry me. Her dad forced her etc. I belong from a small Hindu community in Pakistan. If you are already married it’s very hard to get an another rishta from our community. My question is will I ever get married again. If yes, by when? Are there any remedies I can do?

Name : Sameet Kumar Aswani
Place : Thana Bula Khan, Jamshoro, Sindh, Pakistan
Time : 6:40 am
Date: 16.02.1991

    Dr Vinay Bajrangi April 17, 2019 at 1:04 pm

    There is a Dosha concerning your 7th house i.e. the house of spouse and marriage. There are very bright chances of getting married again but for that, you have to appease Lord Brihaspati. Observe a fast for 21 Thursdays in continuation and then write back to me.

vishu October 9, 2019 at 10:00 pm

DOB 01.08.1988
8.55AM
Kindly check marriage sanjog.

    Dr Vinay Bajrangi January 4, 2020 at 6:35 pm

    Delay in marriage.

sucharita March 3, 2020 at 7:46 pm

Girl ,
DOB : 8/9/1989 , time 9:47 AM, place andal,burdwan district. Any chances of getting married this year sir. How is the post married life ?

Anonymous August 14, 2020 at 12:37 am

Girl, 26.05.1990, 12.45pm, Yavatmal(Maharashtra). When will I get married? How does the married life look?

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