Which gemstone to wear as per date of birth?

We all want to change things with the snap of our fingers; however, we always forget it’s not as easy as it looks. Whether it is for fashion or passion, don’t forget expecting anything too fast too soon or following what others do can be a bit tricky. The same logic seems to apply to wearing Gemstones. People often think of these stones as the only way out of trouble after trying and giving up on so many other methods and therapies. I am sure we know even the kings dealing in gemstones are into deepest troubles of their life, not to be named. 

Ask any astrologer, and a majority of them will tell you the same thing. To my mind, Gemstone can be an icing on the Cake but not the Cake by itself. You even read in many daily horoscopes predictions in newspapers recommending gemstones. There is nothing wrong with wearing a gemstone provided one selects the lucky Gemstone on a certain defined procedure and that too person-specific and for a particular trait of life. The best way is to know and wear Gemstone according to your birth date and a particular planet. I generally do not recommend wearing gemstones by name. 

In my opinion, wearing a gemstone according to birth details or Zodiac sign should be resorted to towards uplifting your present status i.e. from normal to better. Do not expect any gemstone to do miracles to overcome your miseries. But if you have a specific concern and you are serious about it, learn how to first come of it. There are specific Karma correction methods and simple Vedic remedies to bail you out from your miseries; try working on them to bring normalcy to your life. Then if you think about wearing a lucky Gemstone by date of birth or Zodiac Sign, I am writing my mind on this as below. 

Here are some things that will help you clearly understand the purpose & method to select and wear a gemstone using astrology.

Should we wear gemstone according to name?

In my opinion, I do not understand the concept of wearing a gemstone by name. These things are directly linked with planets and planetary positions allotted to you in your birth chart at the time of your birth. This is not something that you or any other person can change. Name is something that is given by our parents or grandparents and many times people change or alter their names according to them. So, choosing a gemstone by name is not something that I recommend. I personally recommend selecting Gemstone according to their accurate birth dates when they want the gemstones to work. 

Astrologers who know the basic rules and intricacies of Gemstone astrology understand why choosing gemstones based on birth dates is crucial. Because birth details mean your birth chart, which means a combination of some weak and some strong planets. As a thumb rule, one should wear Gemstone for weak planets. Wearing any gemstone for a strong planet or because others are wearing it is not correct.  

How to select gemstone according to date of birth?

Now, what the birth details comprise? It consists of the date, time, and place of birth. Each horoscope comprises supportive/benefic planets plus the weak or malefic planets. So, these gemstones work on strengthening the weak planets in your horoscope.

Many wear gemstones based on the Period or Dasha, but this not correct. In fact, it can lead to adverse effects instead of doing or bringing any good fortune your way.

The Ascendant defines the good and benefic planets are: lords of Ascendant, 5th & 9th house are the benefic planets. So, after examining which of these lords are comparatively weaker, the astrologers suggest Gemstones to strengthen the weaker planet.

You should also know that every planet consists of the lordships of two signs or Rashis. Like the lord of the 9th house, Saturn can comprise the Lordship of the 8th or 10th house. However, if it has the Lordship of the 8th house, one should avoid wearing Stone for Saturn. Now, this is different from the fact that Saturn consists of the dual Lordship of the ninth house. So, according to my experience and knowledge, the process is quite easy. It starts from identifying the weak planets, the Lordship from the chart, and then selecting the stone accordingly.

Why should we wear the gemstones at all?

I am not saying wearing gemstones is of no use or judging anyone who wears it. The ancient gemstones are quite fascinating for humans, and there are many mythologies behind wearing the gemstones. For example, how you can get wealth, better status in society, and permanent stature. You will find the value of gemstones described accurately in the Atharva Veda. In fact, the Puranas also describe the importance of gemstones in a person’s life. You can find different gemstones assigned to provide status, vigor, strength, and sin-cleansing. People who are practicing Indian Vedic astrology use these stones because of their therapeutic value. 

What I find entirely irrelevant is jumping to the gemstones without understanding the dos and don’ts. I do not support astrologers who only believe in selling these stones and treat them as the sole remedy for all human problems. You must avoid forcing the astrologer to suggest gemstones as it is only just wasting your money but can have reverse effects also. Only trust an astrologer when they recommend a gemstone based on the procedures and ethics of Vedic astrology.

When should one wear the Gemstone?

People often wear gemstones depending on their Dasha or Period to achieve a particular dream or strengthen their weaker planets or control anger. However, it is quite misleading when people put the benefits of stones in the reasons mentioned above. 

Now there is a full-fledged reason for wearing gemstones. It is used to strengthen the tricona, trines (1-5-9) without turning up the unfavorable houses, also known as the Trik Bhav, as it is possible that the strengthened planet may consist of dual Lordship. Do not let greed force you to opt for gems, as it can bring your entire journey to an end. This is because the wrong stones can affect the planets that shouldn’t have been touched and, in return, negatively impacting your life. 

Gemstones are not something that defines money, power, or beauty. It is important to understand that the gemstones you opt for need to be astrologically refined. You can adversely affect the positive results and disrupt your life's calm period with just one Gemstone. I am not saying do not wear gemstones but take the right person's opinion before you plan on buying or wearing one. Remember that it can show an irreversible impact if you blindly believe someone’s recommendation.

Things to know before wearing a gemstone?

These are the following things you should consider when opting for a gemstone.

1. Gemstones do not depend on the Dasha or period.

2. It is not suitable to use a gemstone for a planet merely because it is weak.

3. Remember that hardly any horoscope exists that allows using two gemstones.

4. It is not right to use gemstones just because the planets are compressed or weak.

5. The planets can influence your horoscope in three ways: if it is a friendly planet/ enemy planet or the planet which will give mixed results.

6. Your enemy planet should never be strengthened by using a gemstone even if it is weaker. It is inappropriate to use gemstones for the enemy planet.

7. Do not use gemstones that belong to someone else like a relative or close friend. It is a big no-no.

8. Avoid using the wrong metal for gemstones as it can also lead to opposite results.

9. Gemstones are only meant to build and strengthen friendly planets. The mixed result planets can be beneficial sometimes, however, there are chances of negative results as well. Using stones for mixed-planets leads to dual results and it might strengthen a few parts but causing damages to other parts as well. The main use of gemstones is to enhance the performance of a planet and using one for the mixed planet might or might not be that impactful.

10. People with basic astrological knowledge know what is Tatwa (the elements of the sign). Only a well-read and certified astrologer can tell you what is Tatwa of your astrological sign and its Lord.

Which Gemstone is good for money, wealth, and success?

Before suggesting any gemstone, I prefer analyzing the strength and weakness of the planets and their Lordship. Here, I can only give one more suggestion that never fall into the trap of fashion or passion to select the Lucky gemstones for money or power. Let me tell you that buying a Lucky gemstone means investing an essential part of your money. So, consult an astrologer and pay a small fee to see if you really need a gemstone or not and which Gemstone will suit you the best. Like, mentioned-above always buy any gemstone that is astrologically refined instead of going for the normal merchandise. In my opinion, if wealth, money, and success were possible through gemstones then they would have been priceless, and the poorer class wouldn’t have been able to use them.

Is there any expiry period of birth gemstones?

Yes each gemstone has an expiry period. To my mind, expiry period of any gemstone is eight years. This can vary based on different views of different people. However, what gemstone you select based on birth details, it is always advisable to review its impact on you and the particular purpose for which you has selected any Lucky gemstone after 2-3 years. It is because situations & person’s own actions keep changing with the time & as I say, no gemstone is perfectly beneficial for a person forever. Also sometimes after wearing the lucky gemstone , person feels sudden gains or losses so in that case also, it is better to consult the person who had advised you to wear any Gemstone.

Mind you astrology remedies do not work always

While doing all this, learn how to find good astrologer in India